29 yr old UK woman fears the wall, commits suicide

[MarkDY]

Hospital administrator killed herself after worrying that she was about to turn 30 with no husband or children
Rachel Gow, 29, struggled to overcome the death of her mother, Connie
Family and friends thought she was improving when she met her boyfriend
But the inquest was told that she became worried he would leave her
Family said her greatest wish was to 'settle down and have a family'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... ldren.html

[newlifeinphilippines]

i dont get it she is attractive and so is her boyfriend why is she worried of him leaving? She is many years from being a cat lady. I dont believe this is the reason.

[Yohan]

Western women are often totally psychotic. They see problems which do not exist.
However the majority of suicides - committing successfully suicide - is done by men.

I do not understand these people, what are they thinking? There is always a way out, and the only reason I see for suicide is being terminally ill and in pain.

[Jester]

Poor thing... 29 years old and in a relationship, she was one missed birth control pill away from having the family she always dreamed of. Always sad to see someone take their own lives, but it's especially tragic when the reason is so futile and so avoidable.

Well-stated.

That's the flip side of PUA... and the same applies to men who want a gf but who don't want children. Yes, the woman basically lies, goes along in order to draw the man in, but she yearns and expects him to then "do the right thing".

The man can be totally truthful and yet do damage.

Being a man means using judgement about where you stick it.

Apparently, in the Bible, the penalty for screwing a woman but denying her children, was death. (Genesis chapter 38)

[newlifeinphilippines]

Poor thing... 29 years old and in a relationship, she was one missed birth control pill away from having the family she always dreamed of. Always sad to see someone take their own lives, but it's especially tragic when the reason is so futile and so avoidable.

Well-stated.

That's the flip side of PUA... and the same applies to men who want a gf but who don't want children. Yes, the woman basically lies, goes along in order to draw the man in, but she yearns and expects him to then "do the right thing".

The man can be totally truthful and yet do damage.

Being a man means using judgement about where you stick it.

Apparently, in the Bible, the penalty for screwing a woman but denying her children, was death. (Genesis chapter 38)

I dont want children nor could i afford them (if my budget outlook winds up being correct).

[Luc Furr]

Likely murder. Inquest indeed, never trust the cops or the government. Sounds like a fight (says they had a big argument), breakup (take care good luck in future), kick the foreign beggar out of the house and murder (hypoxia, suffocation, bag over the head?) of a British woman.

[Jester]

I dont want children nor could i afford them (if my budget outlook winds up being correct).

In that case I suggest you pursue divorcees who have had their tubes tied.
Thus: no deception, no sin.

They stay horny till after menopause. Which gives you from age 40-ish, give or take, to 48-ish to enjoy.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

If you keep it light, with no PDA's, and no flowers, then they'll even help you meet their friends.

Really.

"Dirty job, but someone's gotta do it."

Go for friends, the p***y will follow.

[Jester]

Likely murder. Inquest indeed, never trust the cops or the government. Sounds like a fight (says they had a big argument), breakup (take care good luck in future), kick the foreign beggar out of the house and murder (hypoxia, suffocation, bag over the head?) of a British woman.

Plausible. Worth investigating.

But based on their photos, my money is on the official story. She looks fragile. Ill-suited to godless "modernity".

God rest her soul.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I dont want children nor could i afford them (if my budget outlook winds up being correct).

In that case I suggest you pursue divorcees who have had their tubes tied.
Thus: no deception, no sin.

They stay horny till after menopause. Which gives you from age 40-ish, give or take, to 48-ish to enjoy.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

If you keep it light, with no PDA's, and no flowers, then they'll even help you meet their friends.

Really.

"Dirty job, but someone's gotta do it."

Go for friends, the p***y will follow.

lol no thanks. Premarital sex is a sin and i sure as heck aint gonna go out of my wait looking to commit that sin with that age bracket or marry that group.

[Jester]

lol no thanks. Premarital sex is a sin

Got Scripture on that?

Nope.

Cause it aint.

and i sure as heck aint gonna go out of my wait looking to commit that sin with that age bracket or marry that group.

So your plan is to find a young woman of childbearing age and then proceed to destroy her life by denying her children?

[newlifeinphilippines]

lol no thanks. Premarital sex is a sin

Got Scripture on that?

Nope.

Cause it aint.

and i sure as heck aint gonna go out of my wait looking to commit that sin with that age bracket or marry that group.

So your plan is to find a young woman of childbearing age and then proceed to destroy her life by denying her children?

the whole bible talks about premarital sex. And we know your interpretation of scripture is sketchy.

Yeah the kids issue is a big one thats why im not in a hurry to look for a wife cause i know it will be a long line of things i dont want LOL. Not all women want kids. Most do but not all. If she wants kids she is welcome to have it with someone else. I may never marry though cause its hard to find the right woman anyways. or maybe i will wind up having enough money for kids but it doesn't look good based on my budget and I really dont want them anyways. Id rather stay single without kids LOL Unless i wind up not finding anyone till like 55 or something and her kids are almost of age then it will be ok to marry a girl like 35 cause its 20 year age gap.

Another thing is if i marry in the next few years id have to bring her to america so i can be near my parents and thats a financial risk in itself on many scales for me. If i save up for many years and think of marriage long down the road i could afford kids and keep her in the 3rd world. but do i really want kids many years down the road? Not really and certainly not in the 3rd world have kids.

[Luc Furr]

Likely murder. Inquest indeed, never trust the cops or the government. Sounds like a fight (says they had a big argument), breakup (take care good luck in future), kick the foreign beggar out of the house and murder (hypoxia, suffocation, bag over the head?) of a British woman.

Plausible. Worth investigating.

But based on their photos, my money is on the official story. She looks fragile. Ill-suited to godless "modernity".

God rest her soul.

It was "investigated", Jester, and ruled a suicide. But that does not mean it is done. I think there are a few men left in Britain who care about justice. Just am I am sure there are a few men in South Africa who care about justice. But if I am wrong, the universe has a strange habit of balancing things out, it just takes time. For example a thief poisons and murders a neighbor to get his land, then the thief's son is born crippled with a genetic disease. OR a group of oath breakers poison their king to place their friend on the throne, years later that group is almost exterminated. you reap what you sow, right?

The world is not Godless. God is as powerful now as when he destroyed Egypt for making the Israelites do manual slave labor.

[Jester]

lol no thanks. Premarital sex is a sin

Got Scripture on that?

Nope.

Cause it aint.

and i sure as heck aint gonna go out of my wait looking to commit that sin with that age bracket or marry that group.

So your plan is to find a young woman of childbearing age and then proceed to destroy her life by denying her children?

the whole bible talks about premarital sex. And we know your interpretation of scripture is sketchy.

I'll take that for a NO, you DON'T have any Scripture on it.

Unless i wind up not finding anyone till like 55 or something and her kids are almost of age then it will be ok to marry a girl like 35 cause its 20 year age gap.

Well that IS pretty much what I suggested.

[newlifeinphilippines]

lol no thanks. Premarital sex is a sin

Got Scripture on that?

Nope.

Cause it aint.

and i sure as heck aint gonna go out of my wait looking to commit that sin with that age bracket or marry that group.

So your plan is to find a young woman of childbearing age and then proceed to destroy her life by denying her children?

the whole bible talks about premarital sex. And we know your interpretation of scripture is sketchy.

I'll take that for a NO, you DON'T have any Scripture on it.

Unless i wind up not finding anyone till like 55 or something and her kids are almost of age then it will be ok to marry a girl like 35 cause its 20 year age gap.

Well that IS pretty much what I suggested.

I dont want to argue about premarital sex with you. You still have salvation wrong so why would i get on a more minor topic than that such as a sex sin. I dont agree with any of your interpretation of any scripture you have ever given.


Yeah well assuming i would wind up accidentally at 55. but i dont exactly want to find a wife at that age of 55. Id like to find a wife sooner than me at 55 (and a wife younger than 35 ). but you never know fate. I may or may not find one earlier than that. I may not find one at 55. Its not in my hands. Im certainly not gonna force the issue too much. If i keep traveling though and use some sense i dont think it will take too many years.

[Cyrus]

She was also suffering from grief - the loss of her mother. Probably depressed, most likely a failing relationship, too... - maybe financial difficulties to boot. If you're already fragile emotionally, these common problems in life can then stack up on you and it can lead to suicide. I don't think she died just for this reason, but it was the "final straw". It's sad really if cultures had closer community support systems people wouldn't be pushed over the edge...