A Woman Has Her First Tinder Date And It's A Nightmare

[jamesbond]

This woman (who is a dating coach) goes on her first Tinder date. She explains why the date was a nightmare from start to finish!


[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETPf6gTXkvw[/youtube]

[Zambales]

Dating coach LOL? I wonder what qualifies her for that title? Her own ego I presume!

For one to be a "coach" doesn't the individual in question have to show professionalism?

Having a tacky website that includes profanity and to make video's where the word "motherf***er" is spoken, shows a complete lack of class on her behalf especially as she's addressing an audience.

Is this the norm with American women? Is this how they speak? I know British women have faults galore but even they don't behave in this fashion. They may curse now and again out of anger, with the only exceptions being the real trashy types who are forever at it - and Adele! The deluded singer who thinks it's cool to swear every thirty seconds.

I can accept guys swearing and also for a woman sparsely doing so out of anger or annoyance but for a female to curse regularly is very unfeminine and a turn-off IMO! Actually, I've only come across one woman who has used "motherf***er" in dialogue before. It seems to be a particular boundary that women over here very rarely cross.

[gsjackson]

Dating coach LOL? I wonder what qualifies her for that title? Her own ego I presume!

For one to be a "coach" doesn't the individual in question have to show professionalism?

Having a tacky website that includes profanity and to make video's where the word "motherf***er" is spoken, shows a complete lack of class on her behalf especially as she's addressing an audience.

Is this the norm with American women? Is this how they speak? I know British women have faults galore but even they don't behave in this fashion. They may curse now and again out of anger, with the only exceptions being the real trashy types who are forever at it - and Adele! The deluded singer who thinks it's cool to swear every thirty seconds.

I can accept guys swearing and also for a woman sparsely doing so out of anger or annoyance but for a female to curse regularly is very unfeminine and a turn-off IMO! Actually, I've only come across one woman who has used "motherf***er" in dialogue before. It seems to be a particular boundary that women over here very rarely cross.

Reportedly, motherf****er is Hillary Clinton's most oft-used word. Nuff said.

[Teal Lantern]

This woman (who is a dating coach) goes on her first Tinder date. She explains why the date was a nightmare from start to finish!

She calls that a horror story? She's lived a very sheltered life.
Dear Amy, unless you snag a VERY naive "avocado" ( MINIMUM 15 years older than you ... or autistic ), it's douche-bro "bananas" from here to the grave for the "f*cking queen".

[pete98146]

Dating coach LOL? I wonder what qualifies her for that title? Her own ego I presume!

For one to be a "coach" doesn't the individual in question have to show professionalism?

Having a tacky website that includes profanity and to make video's where the word "motherf***er" is spoken, shows a complete lack of class on her behalf especially as she's addressing an audience.

Is this the norm with American women? Is this how they speak? I know British women have faults galore but even they don't behave in this fashion. They may curse now and again out of anger, with the only exceptions being the real trashy types who are forever at it - and Adele! The deluded singer who thinks it's cool to swear every thirty seconds.

I can accept guys swearing and also for a woman sparsely doing so out of anger or annoyance but for a female to curse regularly is very unfeminine and a turn-off IMO! Actually, I've only come across one woman who has used "motherf***er" in dialogue before. It seems to be a particular boundary that women over here very rarely cross.

My thoughts exactly! When I got married, I was looking for a mate who acted lady like. This is extremely important to me. Been married to my wife now for 10 years and she's never ever dropped an F bomb.

She's low class and deserves the type of a-holes that she describes...

I wouldn't tough this girl with a ten foot pole!

[MrMan]

I saw that a while back or part of it, and don't remember the F-bomb.

I guess what qualifies her is that she's pretty easy on the eyes with make-up at least. Her videos are editted so that they are reasonably interesting to listen to, with decent background music. So people watch her and she can get hits. What more do you need for YouTube success?

I ran a search for 'Worst Tinder Dates' on YouTube. I got a lot of thumbnails of girl vloggers with pretty faces. That seems to draw the crowds.

I got married before Tinder. Online dating was new and I met my wife in real life. I understand it's an app that shows you faces and asks if you want to go on a date or something like that, right? Does it look at other criteria, too, like what you are looking for in terms of height, religion, age, etc?

[Adama]

1. It sounds like the man she dated loved to brag about himself and his wealth. But isn't this the advice we are being given nowadays by certain men? We must have wealth to attract women, and the women must know about it? However, there seems to be some women who do love the braggarts.

My personal rule though is to let the woman do ALL of the talking. And I do mean all of it, except what is necessary for interaction. That means no bragging, and no talking about self unless she asks. Let the woman do all the yapping. You'd be amazed at how people entertain themselves and think you're cool when you haven't even said much of anything.

2. I suspect this story is either embellished or completely made up. Did she go on a Tinder date just so she could come here and make this video? Well you see at the end that she says she teaches women how to stand up to men and etc. She is selling a product, apparently.

Cause you see how this recently happening that just so happened to take place is perfect for her Youtube personality, product and narrative. In other words, using this story, whether real or imagined, to sell herself.

3. Yes, you can see her filthy mouth. Apparently she would also be disobedient in relationships. And she is a teacher to other women on how to be disobedient and dysfunctional.

Make sure to verify the things which you hear from other people. Everyone has an agenda. Is their agenda noble? Is it godly? Or is it entire selfish and self-inflating?

[Adama]

She brags about how she ripped this man a new one. She brags about how she advises that women shouldn't take crap from any man. She makes appeal to women's self esteem. She describes the classic bad boy thug that every woman wants but somehow feels abused by. She goes on to describe how she is a life couch teaching women not to put up with men. She is teaching women that men need to respect them (in the feminist way, not the realistic way). She recommends that women keep standards. She says how women deserve men who will treat them like queens from the start.

He gave her a high five, bought her two drinks (and she was complaining about him trying to get her drunk), he paid for the drinks but she still found fault with that. She complains how he was treating her like a girlfriend. She declares that he's being bossy, and uses that to insult. She tells how the man makes an appeal to help her with financial advice probably regarding marketing, yet she only sees that he's being more of a jerk (bossy?).

Two random men nearby see her date walk by and they feel free to speak to her and ask her whats going on with the man leaving her? Well if she is as disrespectful in person as she implies she is on youtube, then ...

I might say "shhh" too. It is much better than "shut your mouth," or "keep quiet." Is there a polite way to tell a woman to stop yammering about nonsense and her imagined disrespect? The more I think about this story, the more I realize, this is one person whose mouth needs to be stopped.

I am surprised none of you has even spotted this feminist in plain sight. Are your eyes closed? This is a feminist who is teaching other women to be rebellious.

[Adama]

A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing.

clamorous: synonyms: noisy, loud, vocal, vociferous, raucous, rowdy; importunate, demanding, insistent, vehement

antonyms: quiet

[Zambales]

Dating story made up? Yep, that thought did cross my mind. Clickbait?

I haven't dated a woman online, ever, where she's agreed to meet me on the same day based on a solitary comment. There has always been plenty of communication beforehand.

She is just one of these fraudulent YT channel merchants who claims to be an expert in a particular field.

[Zambales]

Dating coach LOL? I wonder what qualifies her for that title? Her own ego I presume!

For one to be a "coach" doesn't the individual in question have to show professionalism?

Having a tacky website that includes profanity and to make video's where the word "motherf***er" is spoken, shows a complete lack of class on her behalf especially as she's addressing an audience.

Is this the norm with American women? Is this how they speak? I know British women have faults galore but even they don't behave in this fashion. They may curse now and again out of anger, with the only exceptions being the real trashy types who are forever at it - and Adele! The deluded singer who thinks it's cool to swear every thirty seconds.

I can accept guys swearing and also for a woman sparsely doing so out of anger or annoyance but for a female to curse regularly is very unfeminine and a turn-off IMO! Actually, I've only come across one woman who has used "motherf***er" in dialogue before. It seems to be a particular boundary that women over here very rarely cross.

My thoughts exactly! When I got married, I was looking for a mate who acted lady like. This is extremely important to me. Been married to my wife now for 10 years and she's never ever dropped an F bomb.

She's low class and deserves the type of a-holes that she describes...

I wouldn't tough this girl with a ten foot pole!

Plus she's full of herself. Sickly specimen!

[Adama]

Dating story made up? Yep, that thought did cross my mind. Clickbait?

I haven't dated a woman online, ever, where she's agreed to meet me on the same day based on a solitary comment. There has always been plenty of communication beforehand.

She is just one of these fraudulent YT channel merchants who claims to be an expert in a particular field.

That's some nonsense out of a movie like, "You had me at hello." Maybe someone who is into pop culture nonsense is going to base whether they meet someone on that. But more than likely, a person who would find fault with every little thing a man does is probably going to have a hard time agreeing to anything right away.

Even if the date transpired, the man did nothing to offend her. I have a hard time believing that he did all the talking. She does a lot of talking, is opinionated, and fault finding, and ever complaining. So would she be able to remain silent on a date? And isn't it normal to talk about what you do for a living? Don't most people talk about that? She acts like everything he did was a capital offense. She ascribes bad motive to normal things.

It might be hard to be in a room with her.

She reminds me of this one girl who was driving with me in a vehicle and we were going somewhere. She was going the long way and I told her to make a turn there at the corner, which would have saved us about 15 minutes or so of driving. As soon as I told her to turn she yells at me and tells me to stop bossing her. How do you politely tell someone to make a turn without them thinking you're bossy? She was just being ridiculous. One of those women who take everything as a slight, and frightfully afraid to yield to a man in the lightest thing.

[britishguy19]

Dating coach LOL? I wonder what qualifies her for that title? Her own ego I presume!

For one to be a "coach" doesn't the individual in question have to show professionalism?

Having a tacky website that includes profanity and to make video's where the word "motherf***er" is spoken, shows a complete lack of class on her behalf especially as she's addressing an audience.

Is this the norm with American women? Is this how they speak? I know British women have faults galore but even they don't behave in this fashion. They may curse now and again out of anger, with the only exceptions being the real trashy types who are forever at it - and Adele! The deluded singer who thinks it's cool to swear every thirty seconds.

I can accept guys swearing and also for a woman sparsely doing so out of anger or annoyance but for a female to curse regularly is very unfeminine and a turn-off IMO! Actually, I've only come across one woman who has used "motherf***er" in dialogue before. It seems to be a particular boundary that women over here very rarely cross.

I think it might just be me, but I really can't stand these female 'you tubers' at all. They act as though they are so important and spend the whole video rambling on and going off topic. All I hear when I watch it is "blah blah me me me blah me blah".

Also I find it ridiculous that she styles herself as a life coach and will mislead gullible men.

It's like the saying goes "You don't ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask a fisherman".