Is there competition with local men in foreign countries?

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Re: Is there competition with local men in foreign countries?

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In Asia or South America etc...there will be some girls there that would want a foreign boy friend. So your competition will be with other foreign men.
However, the majority of women overseas prefer local men due to similar language, culture, family acceptance etc...

So it depends on where to go


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Re: Is there competition with local men in foreign countries?

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yick wrote:
August 14th, 2020, 9:29 pm
As for the post, I know it is from 2013 and we as a community (western male expats) have learned a lot since then but not only are local men are the competition, we aren't the competition to them we like to think.

We come here and see the men with nerdy looks with glasses, stupid haircuts and badly dressed - the girls we want are the female versions of them, they like that look and how they act because they see themselves in them - do you honestly think most Chinese girls would trade these nerds up for some American because he has blue eyes - get real! :lol: it's a joke to think that because you're an American you are the competition! Not as much as you think you are.

Of course, if you have certain attractive qualities, you will find someone you like but you aren't sought after en masse - I don't know how many times I have seen beautiful women with some utter nerd - he wouldn't get her equivalent anywhere else outside planet China but there is no way we're competitive with him.

Cultural equivalency, shared outlook, cultural acceptance etc go a lot further than what colour our eyes are.
Yes China is very nationalist, same with Thai non-pros, and definitely with Mexican nationalists.
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Re: Is there competition with local men in foreign countries?

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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
August 16th, 2020, 7:57 am
yick wrote:
August 14th, 2020, 9:29 pm
As for the post, I know it is from 2013 and we as a community (western male expats) have learned a lot since then but not only are local men are the competition, we aren't the competition to them we like to think.

We come here and see the men with nerdy looks with glasses, stupid haircuts and badly dressed - the girls we want are the female versions of them, they like that look and how they act because they see themselves in them - do you honestly think most Chinese girls would trade these nerds up for some American because he has blue eyes - get real! :lol: it's a joke to think that because you're an American you are the competition! Not as much as you think you are.

Of course, if you have certain attractive qualities, you will find someone you like but you aren't sought after en masse - I don't know how many times I have seen beautiful women with some utter nerd - he wouldn't get her equivalent anywhere else outside planet China but there is no way we're competitive with him.

Cultural equivalency, shared outlook, cultural acceptance etc go a lot further than what colour our eyes are.
Yes China is very nationalist, same with Thai non-pros, and definitely with Mexican nationalists.
I think most non-Western countries around the world are nationalist. And yes, this does tend to trigger sexual envy in the local men when they see outsiders slaying where they cannot.
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