Interview with Filipina Girls

[WanderingProtagonist]

Well it’s like I said on a thread a while ago. It’s a good thing we don’t all have the same preferences or men would all be fighting over the same girls .

Yeah, that'd be wild. And so much of it is culturally dictated, too. Where a man (or woman!) grows up matters a lot in determining what they're going to be attracted to.

I know that Asian men actually tend to prefer Asian girls who look more white in skin and features. Maybe it’s cause they grow up around Asian girls and are used to it. But hey, that works for me cause it means the girls I consider to be the cutest are considered only average by the guys there and there won’t be as much jealousy/resentment from me dating one.

Maybe that's it... maybe men like me and PD have an "Asian soul" lol.

I remember this time when Winston shared pics of his ex-girlfriend and baby mama, Dianne. He was proud of her, and he claimed she was "considered to be beautiful by Filipino people too" and got a lot of looks, attention and even whistles. People rather ruthlessly called him out for this. Which was kind of cruel, but I sort of get it, too, since quite a few forum members at the time lived in the Philippines and knew she was perfectly average for a Filipina, just unusually tall for a member of her ethnicity:

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I think a part of the reason why Filipino men like the paler-skinned, more Caucasian-featured girls is because those are the type of genes they want for their future offspring; makes all the difference in the world between your son looking like a jeepney driver or a movie star. Of course when you marry and reproduce with a foreigner, this is no longer an issue, since the foreign genes would cancel out some of the less desirable Filipino traits: the foreigner is likely taller, even if he's not white or tall-nosed, and usually has features markedly different from local men. It's about giving your kids an advantage in the future.

Sometimes I think of myself as having an Asian soul... But then again, is there anything more white guy then strongly desiring a girl of another race/country/region of the world? As John Doyle says, no white man really wants to live in a 100% white country .

If I was white I wouldn't mind that if it wasn't a Western white country, Eastern European maybe but that's only because Eastern European whites still care about their heritage, culture, beliefs, and aren't giving that up to outsiders that believe it's their GOD given right to invade someone else's nation, take over and try to make it into their own even if they were doing it legally and wasn't causing any issues. The fact is, America is not an All white nation, it's a nation full of mixed in people and we all hate the F out of each other this is why we have our own communities, and communities where people do mix in together they still prefer to keep to their own. That's why here in CA, when Asians start a business, same with Mexicans, Indians, Muslims, etc they will NOT hire anybody other than their own people. Blacks on the other hand, are known to be terrible people to work for even by their own race most of the time.

And unlike whites? The blacks and immigrants They aren't forced to do the diversity nonsense either, in fact no one ever threatens to file a claim of discrimination against them. It's as if they are immune to the laws, but whites had better make sure they got enough blacks, trannies, gays, etc or else they will be facing some problems if they don't. It's also because the ones pushing all the diversity is white themselves, no other race with a business have these rules and policies in their work places. If they want to staff their entire workforce with the same ethicity as themselves, that's what they are going to do. I see it all the time because I remember this Thai restaurant turning me down, when I asked for applications they said they didn't have any. But then I noticed they did have at least one white male working in there cleaning tables. Sometimes these places will do that to avoid someone accusing them of anything, but half of the time they don't care. Any nail salon you walk by will either be staffed by all Asian women or all black women.

They have all have this "f all that diversity nonsense" attitude and just go about making their own laws and rules. In other words they get to live in CA like it was for everyone back in the day when none of that diversity/inclusion bs existed. They also have more rights and freedoms than anybody else. So it's as if they are still living in their own country they escaped just to be here. ANd it's not just like that in CA either, it's like this in mostly any State that have a lot of immigrants living there. It's just that CA and NY have the most immigrants out of all the other states in the U.S. because those are the two major states immigrants flock to when they move to the U.S.

[WanderingProtagonist]

Can you give me an example of what these unattractive types look like? Maybe show a photo, etc.

Go to DateInAsia. A good 95% of the Filipinas there are of that type.

lol normally hate visiting those websites, they always show the men on them too the minute you click on the link and visit.

[Outcast9428]

Sometimes I think of myself as having an Asian soul... But then again, is there anything more white guy then strongly desiring a girl of another race/country/region of the world? As John Doyle says, no white man really wants to live in a 100% white country .

Its that sort of adventurous pioneer spirit that some of us still have. Plus that good ol' "gras is always greener" thing a lot of people have going on. I vibe just fine with certain white girls, don't get me wrong, but I never really saw one that made me think: "Oh shit, I wanna wife her up", you know? Whereas with Asian, Middle-Eastern, biracial black or Latina girls, I have frequently felt that way.

In many ways the way I approach romance and marriage is the way a dog or horse breeder approaches his profession: I look at whatever features I have, and whatever features she has, and I imagine what our future offspring would look like. I base it all on that, aside from obvious factors like "are we compatible on a personal level" which of course come into play. My current girlfriend has nice, thick and shapely eyebrows which I'm a sucker for, as I find my own eyebrows somewhat "meh", and wish they were thicker; its among the few facial flaws I think I have. For this reason I am always drawn towards Middle Eastern girls or Latinas as many of them have glorious eyebrows. Meeting a Filipina who has them was marvelous.

I think the "Asian thing" is to be rather calculating about the whole marriage thing. Asking yourself "what can this person offer me?" The Asian lady as well as the Asian gentleman look at it this way. Yes, there are hopeless romantics out there even among the Asians, and yes they may make foolish decisions from time to time, but at its core, the Asian soul is a pragmatic soul. The older I get, the more I realize this suits me perfectly...

Ultimately, I do tend to be more pragmatic as well and that does fuel a lot of my "brand" of traditionalism I guess you could say. That's why I'm not really like Tsar in expecting a girl to be a virgin, for me if a girl has had a few long term relationships where she had sex that's fine just as long as she isn't a slut. Because of my pragmaticism, I tend to look more at historical examples of what traditional societies are like and try to encourage people to emulate what was normal for that time period in order to bring about a more traditional society. But I don't try to push people further then what was normal back then because I don't think its realistic to expect people to behave more traditional then people in the actual 1950s era did.

I have different terms for it. A society which actually does strictly enforce the "virgin until marriage" requirement is an ultra-traditional society like the Muslim countries or like India whereas societies which generally expect monogamy but don't strictly enforce rules against premarital sex are "modern traditional" societies. A modern traditional society is more like America in the 1950s or like the Philippines and Thailand.

Personally I wouldn't mind living in either one. Ultra-traditional societies make it a lot easier to wait until marriage because they have arranged marriages and people tend to get married very young. There isn't as much worrying over whether someone is marriage material either because everybody is basically required to be marriage material

[Outcast9428]

@MarcosZeitola

There are plenty of girls of other races I find attractive still. But Asian girls I feel the strongest attraction towards. I also feel like, personality wise, I get along with Asian girls the best and they have the most similar values to my own out of all the girls I've met. I've met plenty of white girls who I'd say, the values seem pretty similar, but its really with Asian girls I feel that "click."

[Lucas88]

And you're right, Asian women tend to stick with Asian men. High-quality men and high-quality men of whatever race you can think of in this world, preder one another. It's hard for a man to get a top-tier Asian woman if you are not a top-tier Asian man yourself. It can be done, of course, but you are starting at a massive disadvantage.

When I spoke of "certain genetic qualities", I referred not only to Asian women and foreign men; I also referred to the type of Asian women an Asian man would find desirable: the type that has a certain face, certain looks, a certain skin tone or perhaps height. He wants an "upgrade" for his offspring, he wants his sons to look better than him. And he wants other men to admire him for the wife he has, not side-eye him.

I've personally never cared about notions of "top-tier women" when it comes to my own pursuit of females. I don't have a Eurocentric conception of beauty to begin with nor do I have any sense of class consciousness. I simply go after the types of girls that I like and with whom I feel I could share a personal connection without paying any attention to what others might think. When I'm in Latin America I make no secret of my fondness for the darker women and especially those with African booty genetics. I don't care that society considers them low status. I have my own criteria. Likewise, I'm sure that if I were in the Philippines, I'd be happy to date many of the brown-skinned, pug-nosed girls that you guys are talking about. To me they are perfectly attractive even though most Filipino men consider them ugly. I actually find the paler Filipinas much less attractive and I am practically blind to their supposed higher status because in my own mind brown girls are the best. I find plenty of supposed "low-tier women" stunningly attractive.

I think that it can be a magical thing when two xenophilic people of different races come together in love. Both the man and woman feel that they have obtained something special and better than what they would normally be able to obtain. The result of this is a mutual satisfaction. For example, when I was with my Latin American girlfriend, she felt blessed to have a coveted European man and I felt blessed to have my own exotic Latina.

[galii]

I've personally never cared about notions of "top-tier women" when it comes to my own pursuit of females. I don't have a Eurocentric conception of beauty to begin with nor do I have any sense of class consciousness. I simply go after the types of girls that I like and with whom I feel I could share a personal connection without paying any attention to what others might think. When I'm in Latin America I make no secret of my fondness for the darker women and especially those with African booty genetics. I don't care that society considers them low status. I have my own criteria. Likewise, I'm sure that if I were in the Philippines, I'd be happy to date many of the brown-skinned, pug-nosed girls that you guys are talking about. To me they are perfectly attractive even though most Filipino men consider them ugly. I actually find the paler Filipinas much less attractive and I am practically blind to their supposed higher status because in my own mind brown girls are the best. I find plenty of supposed "low-tier women" stunningly attractive.

I think that it can be a magical thing when two xenophilic people of different races come together in love. Both the man and woman feel that they have obtained something special and better than what they would normally be able to obtain. The result of this is a mutual satisfaction. For example, when I was with my Latin American girlfriend, she felt blessed to have a coveted European man and I felt blessed to have my own exotic Latina.

That's a perfectly reasonable way to look at it, and I understand it. I mean the mind and body likes what it likes. A man likes what he likes. For me, I never liked flat and broad noses, though; I have always, exclusively, preferred noses a bit more "taller", sharper, or hooked in form. Think Middle-Eastern, or Indian noses. Or the noses of some mixed-race Filipinas.

Part of the reason for this, I think, is the fact that I tend to go in sans protection and if a girl were to get pregnant, I would hate to have offspring with flat noses. It just looks primitive and ugly to me. But that's just a personal preference, I realize it does not have to be shared by others.

For instance you are very much focused on bodily proportions; you like a good booty. Me, even if a girl has a small rack or her booty isn't that impressive, if she is facially beautiful, I'm sold. I like faces that are a bit more delicate, almost doll-like. There's a uniqueness to such faces that appeals to me. Like my current girl, I'm very serious about her... she has certain features I'd love to see in our future children; her nicely formed nose, the high and somewhat thin nose bridge, the thick, almost Middle-Eastern eyebrows that slightly meet in the middle and her pale, clear skin. She's also very slender, however, small-ish breasts and her booty isn't very large, so you likely would prefer a more "native" type with a curvier body but plainer, less-defined facial features.

Different folks, different strokes. I'm just glad there's no competition when men like different things. If other Western men had liked the type I liked, I'd still be searching right now for The One, because competition would have been brutal. As it is, dark girls go to foreign men and vice versa, and the few of us who look for something else still stand a fighting chance.

I am shure most guys like what you like too but it is just to much work to get them. The sterotype is blacks like ass, whites like tits and Asians like face. If she is a 6 from the back and I see a 8 face. She feels like a 8 in total for me. Spending time in Asia changes your taste to degree but faces are special that is why we have facebook and not assbook

[galii]

I am shure most guys like what you like too but it is just to much work to get them. The sterotype is blacks like ass, whites like tits and Asians like face. If she is a 6 from the back and I see a 8 face. She feels like a 8 in total for me. Spending time in Asia changes your taste to degree but faces are special that is why we have facebook and not assbook

I don't dislike ass, nor do I have anything against tits lol. But my preference in this area is more on "firmness" and less on "size". Bigger isn't always better when it comes to tits or ass, in my view. For instance I prefer small but firm breasts with large, pointy nipples over very large boobs that look great in a bikini but look like sad, deflated omelettes when the girl gets naked. Perky is a lot nicer than just "muh big boobs" IMO.

Plus I think a lot of times, curvy girls don't always age well. "Curvy" has a tendency to morph into "fat" and I don't really like fat. Now some men would get into all sorts of arguments and say "oh he's not a REAL man he can't handle a woman with some MEAT on her bones harharhar!" and I'm like "nah, thanks, but no thanks". I just want someone slender with a nice face. That type of beauty is timeless.

Round, curvy, big-bootied ladies are a dream to be with, for a night, a week, a year even... but in the long term, I'm not sure if such a girl would work out for me. I have a lot of curvy female relatives and they just don't age very well in most cases. Even if the face remains nice enough, body tends to be a wreck after a certain age. Cellulite and stretch marks galore, and everything sags to hell and back. Meanwhile some gentlemen who married petite ladies back in the day manage to grow old gracefully together with their spouses and both of them look fine even into their sixties and seventies. Since I'm marriage minded, this appeals to me. Plus I want those pretty facial genetics to be passed on to my children. A handsome face is a great asset for a son to have, whereas "childbearing hips" aren't lol.

I agree. Faces are hypnotic and unique. Tits and ass are not unique. There are so many that look similiar. You can lose yourself in the eyes of a person. It is kind of magic.
But most men do not have the luxury to go for faces as they have to first satisfy their sexual urges. Faces are next level. Tits and ass are more like music and faces are like literature. I like this comparison. Maybe one could work on that metaphor more. Or a food mataphor might work here too.

[galii]

I agree. Faces are hypnotic and unique. Tits and ass are not unique. There are so many that look similiar. You can lose yourself in the eyes of a person. It is kind of magic.

Exactly. Like I find that the eyes of most Asian girls are kind of... not that interesting. They look too much alike, to my personal taste. My current girlfriend has eyes that are incredible to me, precisely because of how unique they are, with her thick, long eyelashes, her nicely shaped eyebrows. Her eyes are large and almond shaped. I can get lost in them. Drown in them. And at the risk of sounding like some sappy hopeless romantic... I really think they'll never bore me. Like I can picture myself still staring at her thirty years down the line and being every bit as mesmerized by the thought that she is mine, as I am right now.

They sort of remind me of some sort of Arabian princess lol. And I love it. Sexual urges come and go, and I assume at some point mine will lessen in intensity as they do for most men. But even when they do, I'd still be proud to call her mine.

But most men do not have the luxury to go for faces as they have to first satisfy their sexual urges. Faces are next level. Tits and ass are more like music and faces are like literature. I like this comparison. Maybe one could work on that metaphor more. Or a food mataphor might work here too.

Yes... literature, that works. Or perhaps big tits and a nice ass are like a great hearty meal, whereas a beautiful face is like fine dining, haute cuisine, something unique you haven't had before and likely never will again... so you savour the flavour and enjoy every moment of it. You eat slowly. You chew every bite. You want to get your money's worth out of it. And you get exactly that. It's special. It's a fine steak, like those Japanese wagyu grade A beef cuts.

Yes a 10 face would be a kobe steak or good cuisine from for example India with their wicked spices. Body would be beans like in the Bud Spencer movies.

[galii]

Btw I think I posted my favorite pornstar prime Miki Sato. She has normal ass big tits but her face and expressions are the selling point. Japanese seem to like stories in porn movies. It gives so much more debts than primitive porn.
Faces makes a person a person tits and ass not too much.

[Outcast9428]

I've personally never cared about notions of "top-tier women" when it comes to my own pursuit of females. I don't have a Eurocentric conception of beauty to begin with nor do I have any sense of class consciousness. I simply go after the types of girls that I like and with whom I feel I could share a personal connection without paying any attention to what others might think. When I'm in Latin America I make no secret of my fondness for the darker women and especially those with African booty genetics. I don't care that society considers them low status. I have my own criteria. Likewise, I'm sure that if I were in the Philippines, I'd be happy to date many of the brown-skinned, pug-nosed girls that you guys are talking about. To me they are perfectly attractive even though most Filipino men consider them ugly. I actually find the paler Filipinas much less attractive and I am practically blind to their supposed higher status because in my own mind brown girls are the best. I find plenty of supposed "low-tier women" stunningly attractive.

I think that it can be a magical thing when two xenophilic people of different races come together in love. Both the man and woman feel that they have obtained something special and better than what they would normally be able to obtain. The result of this is a mutual satisfaction. For example, when I was with my Latin American girlfriend, she felt blessed to have a coveted European man and I felt blessed to have my own exotic Latina.

That's a perfectly reasonable way to look at it, and I understand it. I mean the mind and body likes what it likes. A man likes what he likes. For me, I never liked flat and broad noses, though; I have always, exclusively, preferred noses a bit more "taller", sharper, or hooked in form. Think Middle-Eastern, or Indian noses. Or the noses of some mixed-race Filipinas.

Part of the reason for this, I think, is the fact that I tend to go in sans protection and if a girl were to get pregnant, I would hate to have offspring with flat noses. It just looks primitive and ugly to me. But that's just a personal preference, I realize it does not have to be shared by others.

For instance you are very much focused on bodily proportions; you like a good booty. Me, even if a girl has a small rack or her booty isn't that impressive, if she is facially beautiful, I'm sold. I like faces that are a bit more delicate, almost doll-like. There's a uniqueness to such faces that appeals to me. Like my current girl, I'm very serious about her... she has certain features I'd love to see in our future children; her nicely formed nose, the high and somewhat thin nose bridge, the thick, almost Middle-Eastern eyebrows that slightly meet in the middle and her pale, clear skin. She's also very slender, however, small-ish breasts and her booty isn't very large, so you likely would prefer a more "native" type with a curvier body but plainer, less-defined facial features.

Different folks, different strokes. I'm just glad there's no competition when men like different things. If other Western men had liked the type I liked, I'd still be searching right now for The One, because competition would have been brutal. As it is, dark girls go to foreign men and vice versa, and the few of us who look for something else still stand a fighting chance.

I am shure most guys like what you like too but it is just to much work to get them. The sterotype is blacks like ass, whites like tits and Asians like face. If she is a 6 from the back and I see a 8 face. She feels like a 8 in total for me. Spending time in Asia changes your taste to degree but faces are special that is why we have facebook and not assbook

Assbook . That is great

One thing that I really think makes me spiritually Asian is that Asians seem to emphasize legs a lot more. For me, I've always been much more infatuated with girls' legs then their ass or tits. Asian girls almost always have small butts and boobs and I think that's a big reason why some guys don't find Asian features attractive like I do. I notice that the girls I end up with always have small boobs. I don't target girls with small boobs, I think medium sized boobs are more attractive, but I don't mind small boobs and the girls having small boobs seem to overwhelmingly overlap with my type of girl as far as both looks and personality goes. But man, no type of girl has legs like Asian girls do.











I just love how the yellow tan makes their legs look so shiny, vibrant, and smooth. They look perfectly symmetrical, no blemishes or dark spots. They have just enough thickness to them that they look squishy but not so much that it looks fat. Especially that last girl I posted... Phew. Man her tan, her legs, her eyes, its all just perfect. Although if I had to choose I prefer Asians who are slightly on the darker side over slightly on the lighter side. Pale Asian girls look a bit unnatural to me. I don't find them unattractive I just look at them and feel very neutral.

@MarcosZeitola

Oh noooooo . I adore the Asian eyes! On the photos I posted, the second girl and the last girl especially have adorable eyes. I love the idea of spending the rest of my life looking at those adorable tiny eyes. I remember when my ex used to look at me with adoring eyes, and I'd feel my heart melt inside.

[Outcast9428]

I've personally never cared about notions of "top-tier women" when it comes to my own pursuit of females. I don't have a Eurocentric conception of beauty to begin with nor do I have any sense of class consciousness. I simply go after the types of girls that I like and with whom I feel I could share a personal connection without paying any attention to what others might think. When I'm in Latin America I make no secret of my fondness for the darker women and especially those with African booty genetics. I don't care that society considers them low status. I have my own criteria. Likewise, I'm sure that if I were in the Philippines, I'd be happy to date many of the brown-skinned, pug-nosed girls that you guys are talking about. To me they are perfectly attractive even though most Filipino men consider them ugly. I actually find the paler Filipinas much less attractive and I am practically blind to their supposed higher status because in my own mind brown girls are the best. I find plenty of supposed "low-tier women" stunningly attractive.

I think that it can be a magical thing when two xenophilic people of different races come together in love. Both the man and woman feel that they have obtained something special and better than what they would normally be able to obtain. The result of this is a mutual satisfaction. For example, when I was with my Latin American girlfriend, she felt blessed to have a coveted European man and I felt blessed to have my own exotic Latina.

That's a perfectly reasonable way to look at it, and I understand it. I mean the mind and body likes what it likes. A man likes what he likes. For me, I never liked flat and broad noses, though; I have always, exclusively, preferred noses a bit more "taller", sharper, or hooked in form. Think Middle-Eastern, or Indian noses. Or the noses of some mixed-race Filipinas.

Part of the reason for this, I think, is the fact that I tend to go in sans protection and if a girl were to get pregnant, I would hate to have offspring with flat noses. It just looks primitive and ugly to me. But that's just a personal preference, I realize it does not have to be shared by others.

For instance you are very much focused on bodily proportions; you like a good booty. Me, even if a girl has a small rack or her booty isn't that impressive, if she is facially beautiful, I'm sold. I like faces that are a bit more delicate, almost doll-like. There's a uniqueness to such faces that appeals to me. Like my current girl, I'm very serious about her... she has certain features I'd love to see in our future children; her nicely formed nose, the high and somewhat thin nose bridge, the thick, almost Middle-Eastern eyebrows that slightly meet in the middle and her pale, clear skin. She's also very slender, however, small-ish breasts and her booty isn't very large, so you likely would prefer a more "native" type with a curvier body but plainer, less-defined facial features.

Different folks, different strokes. I'm just glad there's no competition when men like different things. If other Western men had liked the type I liked, I'd still be searching right now for The One, because competition would have been brutal. As it is, dark girls go to foreign men and vice versa, and the few of us who look for something else still stand a fighting chance.

I am shure most guys like what you like too but it is just to much work to get them. The sterotype is blacks like ass, whites like tits and Asians like face. If she is a 6 from the back and I see a 8 face. She feels like a 8 in total for me. Spending time in Asia changes your taste to degree but faces are special that is why we have facebook and not assbook

Assbook . That is great

One thing that I really think makes me spiritually Asian is that Asians seem to emphasize legs a lot more. For me, I've always been much more infatuated with girls' legs then their ass or tits. Asian girls almost always have small butts and boobs and I think that's a big reason why some guys don't find Asian features attractive like I do. I notice that the girls I end up with always have small boobs. I don't target girls with small boobs, I think medium sized boobs are more attractive, but I don't mind small boobs and the girls having small boobs seem to overwhelmingly overlap with my type of girl as far as both looks and personality goes. But man, no type of girl has legs like Asian girls do.











I just love how the yellow tan makes their legs look so shiny, vibrant, and smooth. They look perfectly symmetrical, no blemishes or dark spots. They have just enough thickness to them that they look squishy but not so much that it looks fat. Especially that last girl I posted... Phew. Man her tan, her legs, her eyes, its all just perfect. Although if I had to choose I prefer Asians who are slightly on the darker side over slightly on the lighter side. Pale Asian girls look a bit unnatural to me. I don't find them unattractive I just look at them and feel very neutral.

@MarcosZeitola

Oh noooooo . I adore the Asian eyes! On the photos I posted, the second girl and the last girl especially have adorable eyes. I love the idea of spending the rest of my life looking at those adorable tiny eyes. I remember when my ex used to look at me with adoring eyes, and I'd feel my heart melt inside.

[galii]

@Marcos

The girl's face does not work for me too much. I am more with the translator from the movie 'shogun'

Here Miki Sato

[publicduende]

A good thread expressing how only certain beauty canons, like facial symmetry, may be set in stone. Most of everything else is subjective.