WilliamSmith wrote: ↑September 28th, 2022, 6:45 pm
Outcast9428 wrote: ↑September 28th, 2022, 4:36 pm
The way I see it, excessive machismo and faggotry and true effeminacy are two sides of the same coin. I’m gonna sound like a “both sides” fag here for a moment but honestly both of them are bad and come with their own problems. Effeminate men are perverts who have a lot of bizarre and creepy fetishes and don’t have what it takes to build a civilization because you need testosterone in order to have passion and ambition. Macho men are too aggressive and will plague your civilization with crime and general dysfunction because they are too selfish. They think being aggressive is a virtue and that anyone who wants to live a peaceful life is “a beta faggot.”
Above all, I wasn't ever part of the group calling you a beta or saying you had low testosterone or sex drive (I just think it's a good idea to max it out for men's health purposes): But I only like talking to you at all to begin with because I believe you about what you say and think you're thoughtful, and if you hadn't admitted how much you love sex I wouldn't bother with these exchanges to start with.
Mostly friendly response incoming below, but forgive me for first pointing out that the suggestion that hardcore machismo supposedly being just another side of "true effeminacy" is a complete load of hogwash , like when all the normies who said "we need to give up all our liberties for freedom" when the jews blew up those buildings on 9/11 and pinned it on the muzzies then said that the alleged jihadis who supposedly piloted jets into the buildings were "cowards."
Ummm, no, someone with the balls to be a suicide bombing jihadi is not a "coward." (Also, I know there's guys here who did more research on 9/11 stuff including Winston who have other theories, but even if there weren't actually pilots, real jihadis have suicide bombed the shit out of those kikes and given them what they f***ing deserve elsewhere, so at least some of them are the real deal). So on the same point: Mega macho-men are not in fact "actually effeminate," either.
If I remember rightly, even that mutant kike Bill Maher called normies out on that bullshit of calling the jihadis "cowards," but let's get toward the positive stuff where there's common ground:
So there's a sliding scale on "macho men," but there is definitely some partial truth there about what you said about how at extremes overly aggressive men who are also sex fiends have a problem with what they call "hypersexuality" and are way more compulsive and may hurt other people in following their impulses, but many of us don't go that far.
In my case, I admitted there's also an element of addiction to the obsession with women and sex where in some ways I compensate for tendencies toward being an alcoholic or other issues I won't bother to go into right now, but I know damn well I'm not hurting any one or somehow undermining society in some way by having sex with horny women (recall none of them are married or in relationships except a theoretic cases one was a "secret cheater", and I also think prostitution is not good because of worrying about girls stuck in the trade), but I won't argue anymore about that. *shrugs*
Actually I decided to start another business and start practicing as a hypnotist as well as the other two (stock trading is one of them, and I can't name the other one for privacy reasons) because I already was into that before, but you actually influenced me to start doing it more for money but also to help people (not mixing hypnotherapy clients with women I'm banging, by the way, which I'd agree would be bad), but it's also a way to put a positive spin on my obsession with the female orgasm and sex since I seem to not be headed remotely in any tradpill compatible direction.
So see? Be positive here man, you're an influencer and are actually helping a somewhat f***ed up guy like me do something positive with his life as a way to at least make my obsession with the female orgasm into something positive.
Outcast9428 wrote: ↑September 28th, 2022, 4:36 pm
You and Lucas keep on using your libido as an excuse and it’s not. My father had a high sex drive (according to my mom), MrMan has a high sex drive, my ex girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and I have a really high sex drive too.
You guys lack discipline and foresight is what it is. You aren’t able to see the consequences of your actions because you aren’t directly seeing them. You are interpreting other men’s self control as low testosterone when it’s just a high level of commitment to moral principles.
No, I'll let @Lucas88 speak for himself, but I just think monogamy doesn't really work as well as traditionalists say even if I wish it did, but something like 70% I think of marriages in the Western world fail based on the fairly recent stats I read, and something like 85% of relationships end eventually (not that it is always acrimonious between the man and woman, but they still end), and in general I personally think we men are more wired for polygamy (even if that's not a workable proposition in many countries, but I mean having sex with multiple women), and women seem more wired for serial monogamy, but we can get back into that discussion later because I already had another one of those days where when there's no women on my day planner I spend the entire damn day on HA because I've just never seen anything like it, LOL.
But in my opinion, it is you who are mistaken that us having sex with horny women is supposedly causing devastating damage to society, but it's kind of a moot point because there literally are NO healthy traditional societies left at this time, even though I agree that some of the Asian ones are much better (Hungary also looking pretty good, Russia may get better and do well if they can win this critical war against the international ZOG) and I think you're right that some of them may be repairable and will survive the storm way better than others.
Also, I'm 100% sure you're right that more individual Asian women than you could choose from are a great match for you, I was just talking about the entire countries not being as traditional as you think they are, never saying there aren't more Asian girls who would be a perfect fit for you then you'd ever have time for (which is definitely true).
Oh yeah, I can certainly tell that you, along with Lucas are quite conscientious. That's why I don't come down on you as hard as I came down on CaptainSkelebob. Mercer and MarcosZeitola believe he could be a troll, I think that's definitely a possibility, but the persona he displays is definitely that of an amoral man. I believe for you guys though, you could easily end up reforming your ways. Even I used to have more liberal opinions, and live a more liberal lifestyle. Its like something needs to "click" and then that's when they get it. The same arguments that work on one person will not work on another.
As far as the machismo goes, I feel like traditional, healthy masculinity is under attack from both faggoty men, and guys who are obsessed with machismo. These are traits that I consider to be including, but not limited to, ideal healthy masculinity...
- Logical
- Cool headed
- Pragmatic
- Honest
- Gentlemanly
- Chivalrous
- Principled
- Monogamous
- Disciplined
- Long term thinker
- Planner and organizer
- Courageous when needed (not the same thing as intentionally doing dumb stuff in order to pretend to be courageous. Real courage is more like running into a storm in order to rescue your family, wife, kids, or pet dog).
- Passionate
- Develops leadership skills for the sake of his people and his "tribe," so to speak, not for the sake of power and dominance.
- Intelligent
- Provides for his family
- Strong sense of justice
- Sympathizes with and tries to help those in direr straits then his own.
- Has a nurturing side to those under his care
- Romantic
- Protective
This is the kind of masculinity that was promoted for hundreds of years. Different things got emphasized more under different time periods, but overall, whether we're talking about men in the 1950s, the 1700s/1800s, Renaissance Europe, or Medieval Times, this is pretty much what was promoted as good, male behaviors.
However, this kind of masculinity gets attacked by this group of men who were raised without fathers in their household and thus have an extremely stereotypical image in their heads of what masculinity looks like that looks remarkably similar to what feminists call "toxic masculinity." These men are obsessed with machismo and attack traditional masculinity specifically because they consider it to be "beta." Its like over compensation for the faggot movement. These men tend to define masculinity as the following traits...
- Promiscuous
- Aggressive, both physically and sexually
- Reckless
- Loud
- Obsessed with sexually dominating women
- Treats women as disposable, doesn't care about them
- Bullies men he considers weaker then him.
- Believes in a "might makes right" philosophy, that he is strong, and any man or woman he dominates deserves to be subjected to whatever he wants them to do.
- Crude and vulgar
- Has no interest in "feelings" so to speak or intimacy with women. Just wants to bang them.
Unfortunately, more and more, it seems this is what "being masculine" is getting defined as. A big part of the problem is that too many women are rewarding this kind of behavior and shunning the more old fashioned masculinity as "boring." Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of girls who are still into it. But the number who are is growing less and less because so many of them want guys who act uncaring and distant these days. This is a direct consequence of sexual liberalism, because women are thinking of men, more and more, as walking dildos and sex objects. His character doesn't matter anymore because these women don't want or need him to be a good father and husband. They just want a good dick, so they look for pure brute strength. This is exactly what social decay looks like, men and women both valuing one another solely for their bodies and nothing else. I'm not saying that its wrong to take human beauty into account when being attracted to someone, but one should try to be attracted to traits that signal good things. More and more, people literally seem attracted to evil. Like "I don't want a guy who cares about me, is romantic, is chivalrous, is a gentleman, provides for me... Those kind of men are boring. I want the thug who calls me a dirty whore, slaps my ass, and f***s me from behind." They always try to argue that "the nice guys aren't manly enough!" But what they are really saying is "I don't consider kindness or morals to be masculine." When you guys talk about women who allow their man to have sex with other women, I see a morally bankrupt woman who's attraction to her man is centered around his power and dominance which is why, his immoral behavior actually further attracts her to him rather then repulsing her like it should. Which is why I consider them to be immoral whores.
Nobody could argue that my dad is effeminate or faggoty but if he was a young man today, he would be called a beta faggot by this crowd because he loves expressing his affection for my mother, constantly. He is always telling her she's cute, that he loves her, how pretty she is. My dad has never slept with anyone other then my mother in his entire life, he never makes comments about other women or flirts with them or does any of the crap macho men say you have to do in order to "signal that you are wanted by other women" and crap like that. My dad isn't as "crusader" about it as I am because he doesn't believe its as widespread as I do, but he is equally disgusted by the obsession so many modern women have with sexual dominance and sadomasochism. He says it is "sickening" and "these women are just obsessed with power, whether its power through themselves or power through the man they're with."
And yeah, those kind of women, I have no respect for them. I think who somebody has sex with and is attracted to is a reflection of who they are.