Young Chinese woman sobs in viral video, never having a boyfriend

[Yohan]

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-styl ... 84859.html

China is known for its huge gender imbalance, but this woman cannot find a boyfriend? Cry me a river...

And of course immediately some mangina company is showing up, offering unmarried women extra free days for dating...

Young Chinese woman sobs in viral video about never having a boyfriend
‘I have never held a man’s hand’

A viral video in China showing a 28-year-old woman sobbing about never having a boyfriend has resonated with many social media users who identified with her predicament.

Earlier this week, a video of an unnamed woman went viral in China in which she was chatting with her sister-in-law about the pressures she felt in day-to-day life.

“I have never held a man’s hand,” she said in the video, which was first reported by Star Video.

The woman said she has tried everything, including going on blind dates, but hasn’t been able to find love yet.

The Shanghai-based woman also described feeling pressured by her parents to find a partner.

“I can’t disappoint my parents, so I brave it out for the blind dates,” she said in Chinese.

According to SCMP, many people have left sympathetic comments on the video.

“I’m two years older than her, so I can deeply relate to her anxiety,” one person wrote.

Another person added: “I have a similar struggle to hers ... my parents often put pressure on me.”

In 2019, two Chinese companies announced that they’re giving single female employees over the age of 30 an extra eight days of annual “dating leave”.

Hangzhou Songcheng Performance and Hangzhou Songcheng Tourism Management said unmarried women over 30 in “non-frontline” roles would be given an additional eight days of leave over the Chinese New Year to “go home and date”.

“Female employees mostly work in internal functional departments, and some are show performers,” Huang Lei, a human resources manager at one of the firms, told a local publication.

“They have less contact with the outside world; thus we hope to give more leave to them to give them more time and opportunities to be in contact with the opposite sex.”

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-styl ... 84859.html

China is known for its huge gender imbalance, but this woman cannot find a boyfriend? Cry me a river...

And of course immediately some mangina company is showing up, offering unmarried women extra free days for dating...

Young Chinese woman sobs in viral video about never having a boyfriend
‘I have never held a man’s hand’

A viral video in China showing a 28-year-old woman sobbing about never having a boyfriend has resonated with many social media users who identified with her predicament.

Earlier this week, a video of an unnamed woman went viral in China in which she was chatting with her sister-in-law about the pressures she felt in day-to-day life.

“I have never held a man’s hand,” she said in the video, which was first reported by Star Video.

The woman said she has tried everything, including going on blind dates, but hasn’t been able to find love yet.

The Shanghai-based woman also described feeling pressured by her parents to find a partner.

“I can’t disappoint my parents, so I brave it out for the blind dates,” she said in Chinese.

According to SCMP, many people have left sympathetic comments on the video.

“I’m two years older than her, so I can deeply relate to her anxiety,” one person wrote.

Another person added: “I have a similar struggle to hers ... my parents often put pressure on me.”

In 2019, two Chinese companies announced that they’re giving single female employees over the age of 30 an extra eight days of annual “dating leave”.

Hangzhou Songcheng Performance and Hangzhou Songcheng Tourism Management said unmarried women over 30 in “non-frontline” roles would be given an additional eight days of leave over the Chinese New Year to “go home and date”.

“Female employees mostly work in internal functional departments, and some are show performers,” Huang Lei, a human resources manager at one of the firms, told a local publication.

“They have less contact with the outside world; thus we hope to give more leave to them to give them more time and opportunities to be in contact with the opposite sex.”

She can move abroad to get a husband? Plenty of yellow fever thirsty simps in America..

[Outcast9428]

Why be so heartless? How do you know she is being picky? Maybe she’s just extremely shy and doesn’t know what to do. I don’t think that giving women extra time off work for dating purposes can possibly be seen as a bad thing.

[Outcast9428]

Why be so heartless? How do you know she is being picky? Maybe she’s just extremely shy and doesn’t know what to do. I don’t think that giving women extra time off work for dating purposes can possibly be seen as a bad thing.

Think about it for a second brother... would an "extremely shy" woman upload a video of herself crying to the internet for all of the world to see? I don't think so. That's the sort of behavior attention seeking Western whores display all the damn time. No, this seems like a more calculated move. And yes, I do think she is probably picky; there is a huge surplus of men in China. Broke rural men with simple jobs as farmhands cannot typically get wives... a simple honest farmboy isn't good enough for this chick; she wants a banker to impress mommy and daddy. She even mentions how she is going on blind dates 'to not disappoint her parents'. It seems childish, weird and reeks of attention seeking. Don't be so gullible lol. This is like that gay dude crying and telling people to "Leave Britney Spears alone!" all over again.

Not every guy is necessarily as desperate as y’all think they are. Maybe the guys she went on blind dates with rejected her? My girlfriend was rejected by several guys at her school because they thought she was too needy, clingy, and desperate. In high school she was definitely about as desperate for love and relationships as any male incel is. She said recently one of the reasons why she loves me is because I’m accepting of her clinginess and reciprocate it back to her.

Maybe she doesn’t live in a rural area where she would meet farm boys? I don’t know, there’s not enough information here for me to go off of.

[WanderingProtagonist]

Not every guy is necessarily as desperate as y’all think they are. Maybe the guys she went on blind dates with rejected her? My girlfriend was rejected by several guys at her school because they thought she was too needy, clingy, and desperate. In high school she was definitely about as desperate for love and relationships as any male incel is. She said recently one of the reasons why she loves me is because I’m accepting of her clinginess and reciprocate it back to her.

Maybe she doesn’t live in a rural area where she would meet farm boys? I don’t know, there’s not enough information here for me to go off of.

I don't know all the information either but you gotta admit it's super cringe for a girl to record herself crying over some issue, and upload it on the internet for sympathy lol. I mean that's teenager shit, if a fifteen year old emo girl did that people would poke fun at her and roll their eyes and blame it on her age and childish nature. The fact that she does this shit at the big age of 28 is just... super pathetic. I already knew Western females are quite prone to throwing fits of ridiculous online hysteria just to get noticed but its disheartening to see that trend copied by Asian women as well.

You are actually surprised that Asians are copying Westerners? Where have you been?

[Outcast9428]

I sort of think it’s just women being women. Women are highly emotional and they throw tantrums sometimes when they get frustrated. It’s not really anything special to certain countries as far as I’m aware.

[Outcast9428]

@WanderingProtagonist, it sounds like the chinks are becoming even more cucked than the crackers are! They're literally given women over a week of paid time off of work so they can date and f**k Changs! It's a good thing there are very few negros in Asian countries otherwise they would be getting cucked by Tyrone even worse than whitey is. Of course no one gives a f**k about all of the lonely men there and will blame them for the problems caused by hypergamous, entitled women and bluepilled cucks. This woman is upset because she can't lock Chang down. She probably ignored hundreds of good men for not being good looking or rich enough despite being a below average looking gook herself, dumped the men she went on blind dates because they aren't Chang, had a childish temper tantrum on video and is getting rewarded for it.

It's also good that a smart man like @MarcosZeitola is calling out this bluepilled trash.

>Society is trying to incentivize and facilitate dating more, sending the message that it’s important to find a husband even if productivity hours are lost.

>Mercer whines about it anyway.

Glass half empty is a generous statement for this kind of mindset.

[Outcast9428]

@WanderingProtagonist, it sounds like the chinks are becoming even more cucked than the crackers are! They're literally given women over a week of paid time off of work so they can date and f**k Changs! It's a good thing there are very few negros in Asian countries otherwise they would be getting cucked by Tyrone even worse than whitey is. Of course no one gives a f**k about all of the lonely men there and will blame them for the problems caused by hypergamous, entitled women and bluepilled cucks. This woman is upset because she can't lock Chang down. She probably ignored hundreds of good men for not being good looking or rich enough despite being a below average looking gook herself, dumped the men she went on blind dates because they aren't Chang, had a childish temper tantrum on video and is getting rewarded for it.

It's also good that a smart man like @MarcosZeitola is calling out this bluepilled trash.

>Society is trying to incentivize and facilitate dating more, sending the message that it’s important to find a husband even if productivity hours are lost.

>Mercer whines about it anyway.

Glass half empty is a generous statement for this kind of mindset.

It says that it's giving women time off for dating. It doesn't say anything about men. How does this help your average man who women ignore because he's not Chang? Why don't men get time off? Your average modern noodlewhore will just use this time to f**k as many Changs as she can while getting paid for it while the average ricel is forced to jerk off to hentai in his shitty, tiny apartment and then slave away at the sweatshop the next day and told to shut the f**k up if he complains about it.

China is not America, they don’t have a hookup culture in China. They’re giving women the time off because they shouldn’t be working anyway. It’s more important for women to seek out a husband who can provide for her. The men need to get the money.

[Yohan]

Why be so heartless? How do you know she is being picky? Maybe she’s just extremely shy and doesn’t know what to do. I don’t think that giving women extra time off work for dating purposes can possibly be seen as a bad thing.

Sorry, but I have no compassion for all these whiny women who are asking where are all these good men.

About 'shy and does not know what to do' - No idea what she expects from a male friend, but she needs only to tell all people next to her she has no male friend and soon after plenty of men will show up - either by themselves or by introduction.
She herself said her parents pushing her to do something and she also had some dates... what does she really want from a man?

Generally said, China has the largest gender imbalance in this world due to wrong politics in the past. There is a surplus of about 35 million males.

It is ridiculous, that a Chinese woman claims she cannot find any nice man for her, especially as she is living in Shanghai, a city of more than 40 million people.

unmarried women over 30 in “non-frontline” roles would be given an additional eight days of leave over the Chinese New Year to “go home and date”.

Why not to give unmarried men over 30 years old additional leave to look for a female interested in marriage too? We are all equals, especially in a communist country like China.

However not sure, but I guess these 8 days leave might be deducted from the salaries of these women. Chinese managers are not known to offer holidays for free....

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Are Chinese women picky and overdemanding? Well, the Chinese government changed the property law because of reasonable complaints about marriage fraud followed by divorce and claiming up to 50 percent of all what the ex-husband owns, including house or condominium units and cars etc...

Chinese women, often owning nothing, expect in general to move away from parents and the groom has to show up with accommodation for the new couple (but often with financial help of his parents) and after divorce (sometimes only a few months later) she becomes the owner of 50 % of his property.
Often parents filed lawsuits against the ex-daughter-in-law after the divorce of their son and demanding compensation as they could prove they also paid a large part of the sale of the accommodation, or at least still paying the loan.

The new Chinese property law of 2007 - gender neutral - makes it clear, that any property what a person owns before marriage, registered and fully paid - belongs to that person 100 % after divorce.

The new Chinese property law (however a person cannot own land in China) is similar to the Thai law (including foreigners) to avoid marriage fraud.
What is registered in Thailand with your name and fully paid is yours after divorce like condominium or car.

Japan has also similar laws, somehow different however - for example shared banking accounts are not allowed for a married couple (only companies can open shared banking accounts) - property like condominium has to be paid from YOUR banking account and the percentage of ownership will be registered in the land title, for example payment made by 50 percent of the husband, and 50 percent by the wife...in case of divorce and no agreement, this property will be sold and 50 percent goes to the ex-husband and 50 percent to the ex-wife.

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There are even scornful songs about picky women and funny responses by Chinese MGTOW men about this situation.

Picky women: 没有车没有房

No Car No House (ENGLISH SUB) Chinese

Response by Chinese MGTOW

You will see factory workers and other low-paid men...also translated into English

[Outcast9428]

@WanderingProtagonist, it sounds like the chinks are becoming even more cucked than the crackers are! They're literally given women over a week of paid time off of work so they can date and f**k Changs! It's a good thing there are very few negros in Asian countries otherwise they would be getting cucked by Tyrone even worse than whitey is. Of course no one gives a f**k about all of the lonely men there and will blame them for the problems caused by hypergamous, entitled women and bluepilled cucks. This woman is upset because she can't lock Chang down. She probably ignored hundreds of good men for not being good looking or rich enough despite being a below average looking gook herself, dumped the men she went on blind dates because they aren't Chang, had a childish temper tantrum on video and is getting rewarded for it.

It's also good that a smart man like @MarcosZeitola is calling out this bluepilled trash.

>Society is trying to incentivize and facilitate dating more, sending the message that it’s important to find a husband even if productivity hours are lost.

>Mercer whines about it anyway.

Glass half empty is a generous statement for this kind of mindset.

It says that it's giving women time off for dating. It doesn't say anything about men. How does this help your average man who women ignore because he's not Chang? Why don't men get time off? Your average modern noodlewhore will just use this time to f**k as many Changs as she can while getting paid for it while the average ricel is forced to jerk off to hentai in his shitty, tiny apartment and then slave away at the sweatshop the next day and told to shut the f**k up if he complains about it.

China is not America, they don’t have a hookup culture in China. They’re giving women the time off because they shouldn’t be working anyway. It’s more important for women to seek out a husband who can provide for her. The men need to get the money.

You seem to have this idealized view of Asians. They aren't the innocent traditionalists you seem to think they are. This is just about bluepilled cucks giving females even more privileges. No where in that article does anyone say that they're giving women time off because "they shouldn't be working anyway" and that the "men should be providers". They're still wanting women to work while giving them preferential treatment and advantages over men. American culture has also spread around the world and many places are now way more westernized than they were even a few years ago.

See I've actually traveled outside of my home... I've been to Italy, France, Spain, Hungary, Mexico, Honduras, Belize, and many different Caribbean islands. I've also spent extensive amounts of time in several different US states.

No country is the same, no US state even is the same. The only people who believe this are people who are stuck on the internet all day every day... They think the entire world looks like the US... It doesn't. Nowhere in the US would you find college professors willing to post something like this on twitter.



And then there's this...

https://www.reddit.com/r/CrazyFuckingVi ... urce=share

The whole world is not America, only people on the internet all day every day think the entire world is left-leaning.

[Yohan]

I can only laugh, if a Chinese woman is telling me she cannot find a boyfriend....



Check out marriage-market in Shanghai



Marriage-Market Chengdu (BBC)



Rural area, marriage problems



China: Men without Women, considering dating foreign women

[Outcast9428]

@Mercer Only 2%-3% of Virginia's population lives in downtown Richmond, why should I use that as a barometer for what life in Virginia is like? That would be like going to one of the small towns around here where people vote Republican at 80% or so and saying that's what life in Virginia looks like. My county actually votes remarkably close to how the entire state votes (if you exclude the Northern Virginia area that surrounds Washington DC) so where I live is a very good indication of where the state stands, on average. I did delivery work during the election and I saw Trump flags everywhere and maybe 1 or 2 Biden stickers. I drive past a stop sign every day with "f**k biden" on it. When I was in high school, I remember that everybody made fun of the woke crowd. Mostly mocking them for the "I identify as an X" sort of thing.

I've also never said that conservatism was dominant in Virginia. I said the state is balanced enough that conservative values are easy to find. You don't have to look very hard for it. Most people are still kind of lukewarm liberal but you really don't see much outright leftism around here. At companies I've worked for, which aren't particularly conservative companies by the way, you might meet a few leftists but they are definitely a fairly small minority and don't influence the company's culture much. I don't see it everywhere, but I have seen the confederate flag flying on the highways here a few times.

If somebody is having issues with the rednecks here then there's something he is doing to provoke them. I've met plenty of rednecks and they never give me any trouble.

[MrMan]

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-styl ... 84859.html

China is known for its huge gender imbalance, but this woman cannot find a boyfriend? Cry me a river...

And of course immediately some mangina company is showing up, offering unmarried women extra free days for dating...

Young Chinese woman sobs in viral video about never having a boyfriend
‘I have never held a man’s hand’

A viral video in China showing a 28-year-old woman sobbing about never having a boyfriend has resonated with many social media users who identified with her predicament.

Earlier this week, a video of an unnamed woman went viral in China in which she was chatting with her sister-in-law about the pressures she felt in day-to-day life.

“I have never held a man’s hand,” she said in the video, which was first reported by Star Video.

The woman said she has tried everything, including going on blind dates, but hasn’t been able to find love yet.

The Shanghai-based woman also described feeling pressured by her parents to find a partner.

“I can’t disappoint my parents, so I brave it out for the blind dates,” she said in Chinese.

According to SCMP, many people have left sympathetic comments on the video.

“I’m two years older than her, so I can deeply relate to her anxiety,” one person wrote.

Another person added: “I have a similar struggle to hers ... my parents often put pressure on me.”

In 2019, two Chinese companies announced that they’re giving single female employees over the age of 30 an extra eight days of annual “dating leave”.

Hangzhou Songcheng Performance and Hangzhou Songcheng Tourism Management said unmarried women over 30 in “non-frontline” roles would be given an additional eight days of leave over the Chinese New Year to “go home and date”.

“Female employees mostly work in internal functional departments, and some are show performers,” Huang Lei, a human resources manager at one of the firms, told a local publication.

“They have less contact with the outside world; thus we hope to give more leave to them to give them more time and opportunities to be in contact with the opposite sex.”

I wanted to see the actual video clip. She looks reasonably okay in that picture, as long as she doesn't have some massive deformity on the part of her face that isn't showing.

Still, let's not be harsh toward her. Even if men outnumber women there, it might still be hard to find a young man who shows interest or hits it off with her.

When I was a young man in Indonesia, I was really wanting to find the right woman, but there were probably a dozen or so I interacted with that might have been interested, but I wasn't interested in them.

[Yohan]

I wanted to see the actual video clip. She looks reasonably okay in that picture...

@MrMan

You are right, and this video was there with this link, but disappeared. I was looking up now some others, like South China Morning Post, the video was also there, but disappeared.

However a different picture of her still is there...





https://www.scmp.com/news/people-cultur ... e-pressure

[Yohan]

Another one, who cannot find a husband and she wants a baby....
I can only laugh when I read this (and also read some comments in a Singapore Forum where male readers had very little compassion for this woman)

She is lucky, she had really 100 dates? - Ask Asian men, how many dates they have after asking around, many of them do not receive even a single reply even if they try hard for months....

Don't ask me how many dates I had... same sad situation also with men in feminist countries... Asian, Whie, black men, it does not matter at all....
Many without even a single date!

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https://www.scmp.com/news/people-cultur ... r-renewing

https://www.msn.com/en-sg/lifestyle/oth ... 593e455eac

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