Normally I would have sympathy for guys like you, if all three of you weren't such f***ing douchebags completely detached from reality. All three of you have made decisions which led to where you are... Cornfed insists on sticking to a really extreme and abusive ideology that is unpopular across the entire world except maybe some areas of the Middle East, a set of ideas that blatantly favor the man and gives no compromise to the woman at all. My views are unpopular too but at least there's a sense of chivalry, romance, and nobility to it which balances off the more controversial parts. Kalinago cannot make up his mind on what the hell he wants to save his life. A trait that women universally cannot stand in men. The only consistent trait he has is extreme laziness which also sabotages his ability to be successful. And Mercer is not only passionately committed to a self-destructive doom and gloom mentality but is also an incredibly belligerent douchebag who has no idea how to be a friend much less a husband. You are not sympathy cases, you are the equivalent of Black people who want to leech off of welfare while whining about racism. If the three of you could accept reality for what it is, you might have a chance at getting a girl, whether she's a Latina girl, White girl, Black girl, Asian girl whatever... I'm not saying it would be easy but you'd have a chance. But all three of you have severe, deal breaking personality traits that would make any woman, regardless of whether she was liberal or conservative, decide that you would not make a good husband. If the three of you were women, then Cornfed is a masculinist version of Andrea Dworkin, Kalinago is a bipolar, slutty gold-digger, and Mercer is a typical cat lady feminist who thinks all the good men are gone.
I know there are definitely conservative and traditional latinas. But the region is still mostly liberal and living there is not easy. I'm not knocking any guy for liking latinas, latina girls are definitely very attractive... I'm just saying the social system that latinos have created isn't really as good as people keep saying. Latin America is not really great for traditionalists. Its manageable for traditionalists... But I honestly believe the American South is better.
Depends on where in the West. California or New York, yeah, don't bother. Anywhere in the South and its not easy but it definitely can be done.both lifestyles do not work nor are they attainable in the west among western women,you admit that right?