any of you guys realized you dont want to be in a relationship?

[kukushka]

I wouldnt mind just casually serially dating a bunch of girls, also im content being single and just doing my own thing. its very hard for me to be happy with just one girl. whenever ive been in a relationship its just been a brief honeymoon phase followed by feeling bored and trapped. I dont know, I guess I just cant do it.

its interesting how theres other people out there that NEED somebody though. I dont judge these people, theyre just different than me, but its still interesting how some people can do fine without a relationship and others must have a significant other

[69ixine]

I'm content doing my own thing if I have access to cheap prostitutes.

I need female touch.

that's what makes the US so gay,,,women with skyhigh unrealistic standards and no outlet.

[CaptainSkelebob2]

Yeah, I did. Relationshits are just ballache for men and full of drama. Getting married is honestly for suckers. Why get married when you can go abroad and bang hundreds of hot chicks without having to give up your freedom?

I used to be married, now divorced and with two kids to my exwife. And I've never felt happier since I got away from that crazy Western control freak bitch!!!

[Moretorque]

Yeah, I did. Relationshits are just ballache for men and full of drama. Getting married is honestly for suckers. Why get married when you can go abroad and bang hundreds of hot chicks without having to give up your freedom?

I used to be married, now divorced and with two kids to my exwife. And I've never felt happier since I got away from that crazy Western control freak bitch!!!

good for you......

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

I rather stay celibate than dating americ*nts.
I'll give European women, Russian women, Latinas, a try. Yum Yum Yum.

[CaptainSkelebob2]

Yeah, I did. Relationshits are just ballache for men and full of drama. Getting married is honestly for suckers. Why get married when you can go abroad and bang hundreds of hot chicks without having to give up your freedom?

I used to be married, now divorced and with two kids to my exwife. And I've never felt happier since I got away from that crazy Western control freak bitch!!!

good for you......

Thanks bro. I'm thankful that I got out while still in my prime and didn't end up wasting decades of my life with some bullshit marriage like so many others do. At least I have my kids who I love with all my heart. But marriage itself is pure evil. Especially in America. I'm just happy to be free.

[kukushka]

I wouldnt mind just casually serially dating a bunch of girls, also im content being single and just doing my own thing. its very hard for me to be happy with just one girl. whenever ive been in a relationship its just been a brief honeymoon phase followed by feeling bored and trapped. I dont know, I guess I just cant do it.

its interesting how theres other people out there that NEED somebody though. I dont judge these people, theyre just different than me, but its still interesting how some people can do fine without a relationship and others must have a significant other

Love is strange and elusive. In my life it tends to be true that when I search for love, it can be nowhere to be found. The moment I give up and I'm actually happy with doing my own thing, love seems to spring up on me unexpectedly.

I do appreciate the position of those who feel a NEED for love. Sharing things and special moments you enjoy with a signigicant other sort of enrich those experience. At least that's true from my perspective.

How old are you? And what (if you don't mind sharing) experiences have you had with the fairer sex?

I wrote a philosophical thread on love a while ago and its many forms. Since you seem like a smart guy I think you might enjoy it. Here is the link: viewtopic.php?style=11&f=32&t=46722

No pressure to read it or anything, obviously. But if you're interested and at a loose end

im more old that I am young. certainly not a zoomer, ill put it that way lol. ive had a few serious relationships and a lot of flings. honestly ive gotten it out of my system, ive had plenty of fulfilling and happy romantic experiences, I dont feel like ive missed out on anything. however, I think part of the reason I avoid relationships is because when they end it can really mess you up. ive dealt with that too many times and it never gets easier. as a young man heartbreak can be easier to handle but as I get older I feel more fragile in a certain way

that was a good post, thanks for sharing it. it was nice to see all the different categories of love in one place

[Epsilon99]

There is no right or wrong answer to this question as it depends on each person's individual preferences and circumstances. Some individuals might prefer to pursue a committed relationship, while others might prefer casual encounters. Whichever option a person chooses is entirely up to them.