Happier Abroad is OVER. 2024 December Update of the SEA Dating Market

[komei888]

I was recently in Thailand/Philippines

But dating is getting hard there.

They checked the followers of the girls they're adding from dating apps.

They all have hundreds of white guys already, model tier white guys, chad white guys, statusmaxxed white guys, roided white guys.

Every single one is either a model, a dj, roided, or a chad.

Even the 2 Happier Abroaders are both 6ft+ and 1 is roided.

And they said due to this, the girls are super arrogant.

They think they're like western Stacey SMV despite they're third world shitskins in mud huts and their attitudes are so bad

It's so sad man.

Not even going abroad can save us now.

I almost had a panic attack when i saw some white guy MODEL with 30k followers liking this average Asian girls pics.

[dancilley]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

[Shemp]

I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall

Police will respond harshly to reports of unknown and strange acting male going door to door harassing underage girls. Dan's large size means they will shoot him instead of trying to subdue him without shooting.

[HouseMD]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

You're really just giving so much material for when the police arrest you again, it's quite funny. In any case, wherever you go, there you are. Not even the Amish take kindly to people requesting to diddle their underage daughters. May your next 30 years treat you as the last 10 have, with you far away from members of the opposite sex for their safety and sanity

[vlkmo]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

I hate saying it sometimes because there are some benefits and we are supposed to love the internet, but a lot of times I think the internet can go to hell. I grew up in the last generation that remembers a taste of life before the internet and especially smartphones and if it went back to like those days for us adults now, I wouldn't mind. I would probably miss some things about it in the short-term. In fact, I sometimes really long for things to be pre-internet/phones. And I don't care what anybody else thinks of this.

But how are you going to have a social life without the internet? All of the social pre-internet social infrastructure is gone.

[yick]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

You have no money and no real prospects of making any, any time soon - therefore, the fruitless search for female company goes on. It isn't about looks with men, plenty of below average looking guys get women but you need to be self reliant and be able to support her especially if you want kids - no woman wants a man on the dole and a woman with choices won't.

I read somewhere - it was a Harvard study that found the more attractive a white woman was - the more she was unlikely to date not only outside her race but outside the parameters of her social circles and where she went to school to her profession - which is why it's rare for beautiful doctors to date handsome car mechanics - I mean, I am sure it happens but its rare.

You don't need a woman to be happy, you need to be able to embrace solitude and take advantage of the freedom solitude brings you which you are not doing and that is why you're unhappy.

[yick]

And of course 'Happier Abroad' is over if all you are interested in is getting some woman half your age pregnant and married etc. Why should happier abroad be about that? It was like that at the beginning of the 2000's when Russia and the FSU was in turmoil - there were proper beauties willing to meet you and marry you but those days are gone everywhere - China was something like that but it isn't anymore.

Happier Abroad still exists for what it says on the tin, the chances to live abroad, better climate, nicer food, the chance to meet someone nice, learn a language, learn a new way of life and to evolve and grow - all that is still out there if you want it. Why does it have to involve some teenage skank in the Philippines who just wants what little money you have? I know the OP lacks imagination but still, if you want it, you can have it and it doesn't involve door knocking in Utah.

[dancilley]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

I hate saying it sometimes because there are some benefits and we are supposed to love the internet, but a lot of times I think the internet can go to hell. I grew up in the last generation that remembers a taste of life before the internet and especially smartphones and if it went back to like those days for us adults now, I wouldn't mind. I would probably miss some things about it in the short-term. In fact, I sometimes really long for things to be pre-internet/phones. And I don't care what anybody else thinks of this.

But how are you going to have a social life without the internet? All of the social pre-internet social infrastructure is gone.

Very simple; just go to churches. Get rid of all your computers, phones, etc. and just go out and go to churches and talk to people. The Catholic Church officially allows 14-year-old girls to get married. Just go to churches and tell people you want to get married to a pure virgin girl. There are so many churches. Just go to churches and social events they have, every day. So simple. Get a job at a church and constantly be around trad families who have pure virgin daughters ready to get married. It could be simpler and easier than you think.

[vlkmo]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

I hate saying it sometimes because there are some benefits and we are supposed to love the internet, but a lot of times I think the internet can go to hell. I grew up in the last generation that remembers a taste of life before the internet and especially smartphones and if it went back to like those days for us adults now, I wouldn't mind. I would probably miss some things about it in the short-term. In fact, I sometimes really long for things to be pre-internet/phones. And I don't care what anybody else thinks of this.

But how are you going to have a social life without the internet? All of the social pre-internet social infrastructure is gone.

Very simple; just go to churches. Get rid of all your computers, phones, etc. and just go out and go to churches and talk to people. The Catholic Church officially allows 14-year-old girls to get married. Just go to churches and tell people you want to get married to a pure virgin girl. There are so many churches. Just go to churches and social events they have, every day. So simple. Get a job at a church and constantly be around trad families who have pure virgin daughters ready to get married. It could be simpler and easier than you think.

IDK if dating is completely over everywhere, there are still small pockets here and there where it is better than others.
I wonder if a lot of this is the consequence of urbanity, and online dating apps don't help. Fortunately, not everyone uses them or does very rarely.
I don't care that much that my would-be wife or GF is a non-virgin. I might choose to be with someone for only sex too. Whatever is good for the goose.

[publicduende]

Things are not as good as they used to be, that's for sure. A good friend of mine is in Thailand for a month. He has been to Bangkok for a week and is now in Pattaya. He hooked up with a girl from Laos, no more than a 6.5 in looks (his judgment), and she is still paying her about $150/day to stick around.

He says "life is sweet" now, yet it's not like he can hook up with 8s and 9s for free. That might have been the case in the Philippines several decades ago and, sadly, no longer happens there, either.

The only way to enter the arbitrage window in full is to go to a place where:

1. poverty is abject, as in "I don't know where my next cup of rice is gonna come from"
2. they haven't seen a foreigner for a long time
3. they haven't seen a man wielding so much disposable cash for an even longer time

There are many places in SEA where all these 3 boxes can be ticked. The third one assumes you are not the lowest form of broke loser. The first and second ones assume you know where to go and, well, show up.

In the Philippines, there are some rural areas in Mindanao where girls of some beauty and some value may still exist and be resigned to a life of misery, that, until white knight in shining armour winds up to her door (or her Facebook profile). The problem about deep Mindanao is that it's easy that those areas are inhabited by Muslim communities, who are, by definition, more conservative and protective towards one another.

[woodwater]

I found out i can live 9n 600 euros a month un Philipines as long as you deposit 29000 in a Philipino bank. Is it that simple?

[88jose88]

Things are not as good as they used to be, that's for sure. A good friend of mine is in Thailand for a month. He has been to Bangkok for a week and is now in Pattaya. He hooked up with a girl from Laos, no more than a 6.5 in looks (his judgment), and she is still paying her about $150/day to stick around.

He says "life is sweet" now, yet it's not like he can hook up with 8s and 9s for free. That might have been the case in the Philippines several decades ago and, sadly, no longer happens there, either.

The only way to enter the arbitrage window in full is to go to a place where:

1. poverty is abject, as in "I don't know where my next cup of rice is gonna come from"
2. they haven't seen a foreigner for a long time
3. they haven't seen a man wielding so much disposable cash for an even longer time

There are many places in SEA where all these 3 boxes can be ticked. The third one assumes you are not the lowest form of broke loser. The first and second ones assume you know where to go and, well, show up.

In the Philippines, there are some rural areas in Mindanao where girls of some beauty and some value may still exist and be resigned to a life of misery, that, until white knight in shining armour winds up to her door (or her Facebook profile). The problem about deep Mindanao is that it's easy that those areas are inhabited by Muslim communities, who are, by definition, more conservative and protective towards one another.

Imagine having zero charm,social skills or physical attractiveness to have to resort to taking advantage of hungry women to get laid......ansd can we please find dancilley's ip and send his info the the fbi.....this site sucks.

not everyone deserves to breed.you are not entitled to sex.good looks,status,money,Neurotypical social brain are results of past karma I am startinfg to believe,because it seems incels generally are nasty people.Physiognomy(your facial archetype =your personality and soul) is real.the aura influences the face.I even look different(more 'sexy'dark triad,exotic and manly) from 2 years ago when I was a insecure beta p***y ass bitch.@Lucas88 being around cleveland hood niggas instead of dutch 'men' as my companions changed my persona lol!and believe me I'm far from a feminist.

I'm not talking about you btw publicduende,you are one of the few users here alongside lucas88 that have my admiration and respect.

[88jose88]

honestely most of you could benefit from taking social skills classes or just befriending hood niggas or swaggy puerto ricans and learning how to be cool and charm women.you don't need good looks or money to get laid and get interest fro m women,but most of you prob look shabby and could benefit from a cool facial hair or haircut.hit the gym...or just do pushups.

I'm a short aztec looking f***er scared to talk to girls with autism and I took a pakistani beauty's virgnity,got head from a blonde russian hipster girl behind a dumpster and banged a croatian+half Cherokee woman in my group home.my dark skinned ethiopian gf looked like the hot ch0colate girl in my avi when i saw her and talked to her on whatsapp cam......if it's possible for a shy guy like me to get laid in the west like me,it's possible for you to not have to take advantage of girls living in abject poverty.that's disgusting....youre like the capitalists that take advantage of slave labor that we all despise.

one thing girls do appreciate me is my honesty,truthfulness and I don't run mind games...

girls say I'm super funny and charming all the time.guys say im super chill.but I'm shy.maybe subliminals can help you guys.

[komei888]

Because none of that is true whatsoever. @88jose88 lol you're an incel bud. And by the way you're also a failure.

[dancilley]

@komei888 That sucks. The internet has destroyed society. I am thinking about quitting the internet again as my YouTube channel was just terminated due to me promoting lawful child marriage. I feel way better not using the internet. The only thing is, you have to make friends and otherwise stay very occupied in order to make up for not having the internet. I want to find a pure virgin girl who has never used social media. I am thinking about traveling to Amish communities and meeting females who do not use the internet, or at least families who do not let their daughters use social media. I want to go to places where they are all about preserving their daughters' purity until marriage. The concept of getting to know a pure virgin girl, then marrying her, and living in a safe, tranquil location, is what gets me up in the morning. I am going to make this happen, or die trying. The concept of a girl desiring to produce children with me and desiring to be in the kitchen cooking dinner, etc. is what I need. I may go to white neighborhoods in Utah, and go door-to-door until I find a tall, white, blue-eyed girl who likes me. I am lucky because I am tall and pretty good looking, so I have experience with white girls finding me attractive, so I have hope. If I were short and ugly, I would go to third world countries in the province and learn their language, and have money, so that I would be the alpha male of the environment. For some reason, I have dated no one in about 9.5 years because I do not want to date low-quality females. I have had no money in general, and live in a bad location, but once I have some money, I will drive out of here and relocate to a way better location. Something tells me I should lower my standards though. I did that before in order to lose my virginity and get dating experience, and it was fun, but the females were generally dysfunctional. It's probably better to do that so that you get in the habit of dating females, and then you can improve from there. I don't want to fornicate though. It seems very dangerous that the female will get pregnant. I hate abortion. It would be hell to have to raise a child with a female who is highly dysfunctional. That's why I have been abstinent for almost 10 years now. I just need the money in order to live in a good location, so that a good quality female would be attracted to me for marriage.

I hate saying it sometimes because there are some benefits and we are supposed to love the internet, but a lot of times I think the internet can go to hell. I grew up in the last generation that remembers a taste of life before the internet and especially smartphones and if it went back to like those days for us adults now, I wouldn't mind. I would probably miss some things about it in the short-term. In fact, I sometimes really long for things to be pre-internet/phones. And I don't care what anybody else thinks of this.

But how are you going to have a social life without the internet? All of the social pre-internet social infrastructure is gone.

Very simple; just go to churches. Get rid of all your computers, phones, etc. and just go out and go to churches and talk to people. The Catholic Church officially allows 14-year-old girls to get married. Just go to churches and tell people you want to get married to a pure virgin girl. There are so many churches. Just go to churches and social events they have, every day. So simple. Get a job at a church and constantly be around trad families who have pure virgin daughters ready to get married. It could be simpler and easier than you think.

IDK if dating is completely over everywhere, there are still small pockets here and there where it is better than others.
I wonder if a lot of this is the consequence of urbanity, and online dating apps don't help. Fortunately, not everyone uses them or does very rarely.
I don't care that much that my would-be wife or GF is a non-virgin. I might choose to be with someone for only sex too. Whatever is good for the goose.

I haven't dated anyone since June of 2015 because I pretty much decided 100% that I wouldn't date anyone unless it was for marriage, because I have dated too many women, and to get to know a female extremely well, then commit to her with the intention of producing children, is way better than dating casually. Seriously dating a female for marriage is way more special than just casual dating. If the female is a pure virgin, then she will have a way better personality that is eager and optimistic and looking forward to living life together with you, and focused only on you. She actually has a romantic attitude toward you. Women are damaged and not cooperative and not romantic. Everyone must stop dating women.

What I'm going to do is build myself physically, financially, and mentally...and move to a very safe, good location...then meet a pure-virgin girl and get to know her extremely well, then marry her, and produce a very large family, and I am going to continue to accumulate concubines who are over the age of consent, so that I eventually become maximally sexually active and reproductive. I will only have sex when the female is ovulating and comes to me.

We need to become as high in value as possible, then females will want us. You have to be in the top 1% or whatever. You need money, muscles, confidence, and high energy. You need to get six-pack abs. So, you need to physically work and work out every day, accumulate income, and acquire a good motor vehicle, and live in a good location, then when you go to churches or even online, everyone will respect you, and their attraction to you will not be a choice.

But if you are skinny and weak, or fat, that isn't good enough. If you have low energy and you're not able to speak your mind, that is average and not exciting. You need to eat as perfectly as possible and have the best health possible. If you do not even live in a very good location, the females are not going to be healthy and high-quality. You need to be outstanding from the average Joes. You need to be a public speaker, making videos every day with confidence and high-energy and leading other men, like Andy Elliot on YouTube: