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Are normal people in a different reality? How come they don't talk about social disconnection or unapproachable women?

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I don't get something. How come average normal people never complain about social disconnection or isolation or loneliness or alienation or women being unapproachable and unsocial? Aren't these things obvious? As obvious as 2+2=4 or the blue sky?

Are normal people in a different reality from me? So in their reality most people are social butterflies and inclusive and women are approachable and social. And they don't experience a force field barrier between them and others like I do? If so why?

Since no one sees the obvious or talks about it, it makes me question reality. It's like a reality breakdown. You gotta wonder if normal people are in a different reality where people are inclusive and women are approachable and sociable etc.

Even psychology websites claim that most people are extroverts and social butterflies and open to talking to others, just like you see in the movies. Yet I don't see that at all. No one makes eye contact with me or talks to me and treats me like I'm invisible. And everyone looks closed off like they don't want to be bothered. Unless I'm outside of America and Taiwan of course, then it's different and the force field is not there anymore or less of an issue at least.

How can that be? We can't explain this logically unless other people are in a different reality or dimension or the matrix treats normal people very differently from us? It's a reality breakdown and cannot be explained with logic. It almost seems supernatural or metaphysical. It would have to be. Right? It's impossible to explain.
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Have you noticed that mainstream Americans do not struggle with fitting in or with feeling a force field around them that prevents them from doing what they want?

As you know America is a live to work culture where the purpose of your life is to work and make money and have a good job or career. Me and some of my freethinker friends don't agree with that. But most mainstream Americans do. They don't struggle with it or force themselves to accept the live to work culture. They simply agree with it and believe it, as if it is already their own beliefs that they were born with. It's as if the culture is part of their genes and DNA. So they don't have to try to force themselves to believe it. You see what I mean?

The average person does not struggle with this kind of thing. They agree with their culture as if they were born with the same beliefs and are part of it. So there is no struggle or issue. They agree with their culture and do not try to oppose it. It's as if Americans were born agreeing with their culture. You see what I mean? If you think about it it certainly seems that way. The average person does not struggle with their own culture the way I do. That's for sure. I wonder why.

Btw I've always wondered. What happens to those starving artists and hippies and freespirits who cannot tolerate being a corporate slave or wage slave just to pay their bills in America? How do they survive usually? It seems that if you don't want to be a corporate slave, America doesn't offer any alternative ways for you to survive and pay your bills. And most people don't have the guts or skills to live off grid. And no one considers happier abroad of course because that option just doesn't exist to them, not even to hippies and freespirits and freethinkers. Moving abroad doesn't exist for most people including truthers and freethinkers. It's too far out in left field for them to consider.

Anyway, how do hippies and freespirits and starving artists usually survive in America when logically there should be no way for them to? I've always wondered about that. It seems like a reality breakdown. The thing is hippie girls don't like attachment or marriage so they aren't gonna find a good husband to support them. Their relationships tend to be temporary only. And they say they don't want to be a corporate slave. So how do they survive? How do hippie men survive? Like the ones you see in the movie "Born to be wild" with Jack Nicholson.
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Btw have you noticed that if you don't fit into a country or culture that it feels like there are invisible walls and force fields around you that prevent you from doing what you want to do?

For instance I don't fit in America so I don't feel like I can just go out and have fun and meet people and make friends and get dates and approach girls. Etc. yet the average American does not complain about that and doesn't feel that way and will never say that. It's as if they don't experience that. Why? Is it because they feel free to do whatever they want in America because there isn't a force field or invisible wall blocking them? Are they in a different reality? How come I feel that way but average mainstream people do not?

Do any of you notice this too? That if you don't fit in or click with your culture or people that there seems to be a wall or barrier between you and others? Like the wall between cats and dogs that tells them that they aren't meant to mix and get close to each other?

It seems the average American simply gets a social life and dating life naturally somehow. They don't complain about some barrier or force field blocking them like I do. It's like the American matrix treats them differently. Or they are in a different reality?

The thing is when I went to Russia and Europe and the Philippines, I noticed that I didn't feel this invisible wall or force field around me. I could, like the average American in America, simply go out and meet people and make friends and get dates sometimes too, naturally as if it were part of the flow and didn't have to be forced. How do you explain that?

Yet in America I never experience that. There's always a wall or barrier preventing me from doing anything. Hence I never feel free in America and can't even be myself or connect with people naturally. Any of you feel that way too?

How come no one talks about this except me? Very odd. No one even asks this question either. Everyone just fits in without struggle.

The average mainstream American does not seem to ever feel that way at all and never says any of this. Only I do. Isn't that the weirdest thing? You won't even hear anyone talk about this on YouTube. If they talk about loneliness or isolation on YouTube they will assume that the whole world is the same as America. Am I the weirdest guy in the world and the biggest anomaly or what? Lol

How come average people never talk about this or ask these questions? They just say people are friendly everywhere and leave it at that. Very simple. No questions or observations needed. Lol
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This guy made a video recently saying how America is the worst place for a social life. There are over four thousand comments so far and everyone is agreeing with him.

"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

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To All: Do any of you notice that if the matrix assigns you to be a misfit, that there is like a force field around you that prevents you from having a normal dating or social life and blocks you from connecting with others? Like the barrier between cats and dogs because they aren't meant to connect? The thing is, normal average people don't complain about this, it's as if they are in a different reality and do not feel this force field like we do. It's as if the matrix treats you differently if you are normal as opposed to if you are a misfit like us.

However, when I'm in Europe or Russia or SE Asia, it's very different. I feel like I'm in a movie or TV show, because dating and social life suddenly becomes natural and flows smoothly, like it does in the movies. Why is that? Is it because the matrix that is against us is only in America or strongest in America? Keep in mind no one chooses to be a misfit, no one wants to be alienated, it's sort of assigned to us. It's like we are metaphysical "targeted individuals". Not targeted by government, but by the Notnilc.
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Re: Are normal people in a different reality? How come they don't talk about social disconnection or unapproachable wome

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Winston wrote:
December 11th, 2024, 11:41 pm
I don't get something. How come average normal people never complain about social disconnection or isolation or loneliness or alienation or women being unapproachable and unsocial? Aren't these things obvious? As obvious as 2+2=4 or the blue sky?

Are normal people in a different reality from me? So in their reality most people are social butterflies and inclusive and women are approachable and social. And they don't experience a force field barrier between them and others like I do? If so why?

Since no one sees the obvious or talks about it, it makes me question reality. It's like a reality breakdown. You gotta wonder if normal people are in a different reality where people are inclusive and women are approachable and sociable etc.

Even psychology websites claim that most people are extroverts and social butterflies and open to talking to others, just like you see in the movies. Yet I don't see that at all. No one makes eye contact with me or talks to me and treats me like I'm invisible. And everyone looks closed off like they don't want to be bothered. Unless I'm outside of America and Taiwan of course, then it's different and the force field is not there anymore or less of an issue at least.

How can that be? We can't explain this logically unless other people are in a different reality or dimension or the matrix treats normal people very differently from us? It's a reality breakdown and cannot be explained with logic. It almost seems supernatural or metaphysical. It would have to be. Right? It's impossible to explain.
Win, have you ever heard of MBTI? Basically four dichotomies that attempt to explain human behavior. I don't think it's the end all be all, but I do think there is some validity to it. Basically, you have E/I for extrovert/introvert, S/N for sensing or intuiting, T/F for thinker or feeler, and P/J for perceiving or judging. As I recollect, the 1st, 3rd, and 4th ones are relatively even in the American population, but the 2nd one, s/n is way lopsided favoring sensors over intuitves, as I beleive 75/25 ratio. You strike me as a fellow intuitive, so we def are going to have a hard time connecting /relating to the people around us. We're intuiitives in a sensors world. It's really interesting, you should read into it.
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