Winston wrote:Rock, lol well lol, I thought you and other guys here told me before that women were into casual sex, and that if you were hot, then they would give you casual sex, and that if they don't, then you aren't attractive.
I don't know, but from what guys say, that sounds like what they are claiming. At least that's what they insinuate. Am I missing something here? lol
Re-read my last post in this thread. Many young women (Chinese anyway) are seduceable even though casual sex may be in conflict with their pragmatic goals. In my experience, if a Chinese girl is attracted to you, there is a strong chance that she will give you intimacy and sex. Also, some of these girls may be sexually curious about foreigners. When people say that women there are into casual sex, it doesn't mean they are out actively looking for it.
Its not Brazil or Sweden. With China, you need to seduce the girl. And if she's attracted to you, it doesn't mean you are hot. More likely, your behavior towards her and overall manner somehow touched her. For this, you need to read-up or learn (via trial and error) how to attract women from this culture. And of course, there may be some who just fall into your lap (are attracted to you at first site) and others who wouldn't be seen dead with you no matter what you do.
I think it helps a lot to behave like a responsible and confident man, not some uncouth bad-boy or feminized nice guy. Be emotionally strong, well spoken, calm, and detailed in looking after your date. Don't scratch your head in hesitation trying to figure your next move. If you are going to take her out, have things planned in advance and be familiar with the venues, service, etc. so you don't get any surprises which may throw you off. Don't ask her too many questions or show any insecurities. Your first job is to attract her. Research on how to do this cus its important.
