Stop being a gentleman. Chivalry is old fashioned...

[samurai_panda]

This includes plain old embarrassing the guy after cockteasing him for weeks and he makes a move, to trying to cockblock the guy from getting other women because of their jealousy. This involves spreading lies, exaggerating details, making mountains out of molehills, and basically saying some terribly negative things about other people that most men couldnt even imagine saying about the worst person they've ever met. Yet most women can and will do this on a daily basis.

It's better to be humble. Even if the woman is being cruel and abusive, it doesn't mean you should fight fire with fire. Real maturity is being a wise and confident person.

I truly believe in karma: if people keep doing bad things, they will get retribution and payback later on. It's how the natural order of balance works out.

It's more prudent to be kind and nice to others. Being mean and cruel won't make you any friends, and will cause more enemies and trouble for you.

Humble yourself and you will achieve greatness.

[polya]

The fact is most women WANT the bad-boy, so after all the years of abuse, I've decided to give women their bad-boy as being "nice" GOT ME NOWHERE.

I still believe being a nice man is a good thing. I tried being a mean and cruel person, I did horrible things I regret. I didn't feel good about it. Being mean and cruel is not the right path. Good women do value and appreciate a honest and sincere man. I really think that.

Being a good man in a world of cruelty is a tough thing to do - but it's worth the sacrifice. I can't be something I am not. I'd rather die alone than become someone fake.

This one is hard for me to reconcile. In theory you are correct. That is, the golden rule of treating others the way you want to be treated. However, in my experience, >99% of American women lack any sort of values, respect, empathy or any other positive trait for most other people in this world. In fact, I would say that the vast majority of American women go out of their way to socially embarrass men they arent attracted to (or who they are attracted to but feel they couldnt ever get). This includes plain old embarrassing the guy after cockteasing him for weeks and he makes a move, to trying to cockblock the guy from getting other women because of their jealousy. This involves spreading lies, exaggerating details, making mountains out of molehills, and basically saying some terribly negative things about other people that most men couldnt even imagine saying about the worst person they've ever met. Yet most women can and will do this on a daily basis.

So in theory you are correct. Men should be good to women. But I would like to add the caveats that there are very few good women worthy of good behavior from men, and that being nice to the wrong women (the vast majority) will result in more suffering for the man involved because it is despised and viewed as weakness.

Women in this society have closed minds, are culturally indoctrinated with B.S. and are spiritually and emotionally broken. There is no way >1% qualify to be treated as "ladies."

I know a few women in their late 50s and older, and these women are just as slutty-minded and immature as women in their teens. It is already too late, and probably for the last 60 years the USA has been a wasteland.

Of course women should be good to men & vice versa. But it doesn't happen! Almost all women are entitled, worthless, good for nothing b!tches. Why should I be nice to them when they've ruined my life and are constantly rude to men? Why should I even talk to such witches? I'm not a wounded puppy dog who comes back after being hit over again. I give women the treatment they deserve, so if I strike a kind woman, I'll be jind to her (I haven't struck one yet - LOL)

[DruidV]

I take deep delight in letting the door slam in the faces of ungrateful, disgusting WF and Ameriskanks. I love getting in line ahead of them at the market with my full grocery cart, because I am always faster and better at shopping than a waddling Ameriskank.

I take great joy in speeding past them and honking aggressively, whenever I see a WF on the side of the road, stranded with a breakdown or a flat tire. I also take the time to laugh at them through my open window as I go by! I never even acknowledge their outrage, shock or offense at me in public anymore either, except maybe to laugh at them.

Who the f**k do these arrogant bitches think they are anyway, to try and shame or scold me into performing like a circus monkey for their whim$?

For the record and to my way of thinking, all WF are now, or have been guilty of being skanks and entitlement whores at some point or another in their lives, so none gets any special treatment from me, old or otherwise.

Grandma WF, who could have put a stop to all this feminist supremacy nonsense a long time ago, but chose instead to either encourage, embrace or ignore it all, deserves no special consideration from me. She is perhaps the most despicable of all WF... I hope she is spry for her age because she gets a door in the face from me, every single time.

Empowered, Independent, Baby Boomer WF is certainly the most obnoxious type of over entitled whore and her big flapping lips and ill informed opinions about my responsibilities and duties to her as a "Mayun" are ignored utterly. Since she is the most verbally aggressive and obnoxious of WF, she is always met with my "f**k off, BITCH!!!" expression and tone as well as with and complete disdain or utter disregard. She gets a door in the face, fastball style.

Gen-X and Y, scrap metal-impaled, tramp-stamped, party whore skank, is by far the least attractive and most toxic of all WF, now that her whoring has netted her 30 or so years worth of baby daddies and bling along with plenty of hard miles on her failing carcass. Hotdog + hallway + a spin or two on the random STD wheel= ICK!!!
Have a door in the chops, BITCH!

Mini skank (wanna be preteen skank) without argument, the most perverted, disgusting and vile mockery of WF, is no exception to a door in the snout either. These all get to catch the door on its backswing, when I am done going through it ahead of them. They are young, and they can take it.

WF of every age now all either openly enjoy, silently smirk at or completely ignore the open war on Men anyway, as their voting record and overall shitty attitude toward us Men over the last sixty years clearly shows, so why should I do anything but Jackshit for a single one of them?

The WF now comes equipped with have an automatic jail cell waiting for us all eventually anyway, Men. This comes courtesy of the state and via her vagina.

The question to ask yourselves is; what about you being in her life will eventually be pissing her off/boring her enough in the future, for you to find your way into your own cell?

In other words, society and the law has given WF the gun to point at Men with extreme prejudice, anytime they wish and so I owe them nothing! No courtesy or consideration beyond that which I would extend to something venomous, hairy and creepy, living hidden in a dark space, somewhere in my basement.

[momopi]

Some activities of a gentlemen:

- Learning proper etiquette, courtesy, and respect for others who work hard for your benefit
- Learning how to play music instruments, chess, or the game of "go"
- Learning calligraphy, painting, photography (for those who can't draw), culinary arts, wine
- Taking part in gentlemen sports, including archery, fencing, equestrian arts, boating/sailing, tennis, cricket, golf, trap shooting, etc.
- Maintaining good appearance and good hygiene. Exercise regularly, stray in shape, dress and groom appropriately.
- Being financially responsible, so you can afford to be and live like a gentlemen.


A gentlemen knows how to bow politely, but does not...

- Bend over for people
- Bend over to get laid (assuming that you're heterosexual male, why are you assuming the doggy position of a women?)
- Engage in arguments because you're bored, self-centered (thinks everyone's comments is directed at him), or just want to win an argument
- Talk excessively, especially about yourself, and wasting too much time on frivolous pursuits
- Allow yourself to deteriorate physically into obesity, or become a sloth who sees lions in the streets
- Stare or ogle inappropriately, giving off creepy vibe of a letch to everyone around him.

[Rayn]

Chivalrous behavior is very commendable, but only for women who had earned your respect and love: Your mother, your long-term girlfriend, your wife, etc.

Acting like a doormat to women whom you just met, who's barely even your girlfriend, who had done nothing on her part to deserve such treatment (looking pretty DOESNT count) only sends the wrong vibes to women and at the same time attracts the manipulative, self-centered, user types.

[PeterAndrewNolan]

Chivalry is sexism, discrimination and bigotry...simple.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

I disagree with everyone here. I don't believe in treating women like sh**. Even if women in your past have treated you badly, you shouldn't be mean in return. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I truly believe there is a place for nice guys who value and respect women. I didn't say you had to be weak or a push over, but you can still be good to a woman.

All this woman-bashing makes me feel uncomfortable. I truly love women - they are beautiful creatures. Yes, there are abusive women out there. But I learn to forgive and move on.

Life is beautiful.

Wow you are my type of man . Chilvary is a beautiful thing. I don't mind a man opening a door for me. I also open doors for men if I walk in front of them and one is close by I hold the door for him.

[ben dover]

Wow can it be that bad in the US today? Granted I haven't been there for about 5 years but when I was there last touring the mid west I found the people to be genuinely beautiful and friendly folk. Chivalry is an outdated term in 2012. Today it is just common courtesy. Otherwise you are setting yourself up for some dickensian expectation that became defunct in the 17th century. How do you people function in the world where you have to go to work or go to the market or go to a movie and there is always a plethora of women in these scenarios? I do these things all the time. If I get there first I open the door at work and let people in. Both men and women. I work with many women who will hold the door open for me and others if they get there first. If I get in a lift I stand back and make room for others both men and women and will generally let others out before me. Men and women. It's really not that hard to be courteous and I rarely find anybody who is not courteous in return, apart from the ignoramuses talking on their phones or permanently plugged into their ipods. Maybe the US is the very last place I will want to visit again in the future if that is what your women are like because they must have changed drastically over the last 5 years. Must be all the french fries. LOL

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

Wow can it be that bad in the US today? Granted I haven't been there for about 5 years but when I was there last touring the mid west I found the people to be genuinely beautiful and friendly folk. Chivalry is an outdated term in 2012. Today it is just common courtesy. Otherwise you are setting yourself up for some dickensian expectation that became defunct in the 17th century. How do you people function in the world where you have to go to work or go to the market or go to a movie and there is always a plethora of women in these scenarios? I do these things all the time. If I get there first I open the door at work and let people in. Both men and women. I work with many women who will hold the door open for me and others if they get there first. If I get in a lift I stand back and make room for others both men and women and will generally let others out before me. Men and women. It's really not that hard to be courteous and I rarely find anybody who is not courteous in return, apart from the ignoramuses talking on their phones or permanently plugged into their ipods. Maybe the US is the very last place I will want to visit again in the future if that is what your women are like because they must have changed drastically over the last 5 years. Must be all the french fries. LOL

I agree with you American women and men hold doors open and American women and men let me dish them in line if I have fewer item than them. Amercan women and men are still this way.