As usual, wisely said. Minimal effort, maximum result, the same mantra you gringos are relentlessly sold by every snake oil salesman, from TV to the White House.OutWest wrote:This simple reality will be avoided by most men from the USA even while they continue to complain about their lack of success. The Instant On, TV Remote version of reality that most American men subscribe to, pretty well relegates them to P4P girls unless they are willing to change their attitudes.
>>>Why do men think that a great girl overseas should just roll over for them when he has not taken the time to connect with her culture and family in any meaningful way, and does not demonstrate some
kind of ongoing connection to her place that would sustain a long term relationship?
Many of the best girls can easily spot when they are being gamed- they are not interested in being
some manwhore's vacation GF. But of course, American men will continue to troll the world, blowing into this city of that, and post their "take" on the local girls, when in reality they have no clue beyond the bar girl or two they paid for.
The men who think differently have little competition.
It must be said, though, that in places like Medellin a genuine desire to learn the local ropes with a view to living at least medium term or doing business, goes a very, very long way. Unfortunately most Americans simply cannot afford to take more than two weeks off a year, so they have to settle for the lowest common denominator relationships. And even then, I guess it's still possible to leave a dent and be seen as serious people, not manwhores.
