Nomad wrote:
About 2 months after joining this forum and having hardly no posts of my own, you have already made tons of assessments about me and my relationship to my wife, that were just flat out wrong. Now you accuse me of falsely judging you. Perhaps you would be right, if everyone else did not say the same thing. But the only one blind to their actions in this case is you. You make presumptions about people's lives, but to what end, I know not. Also, not all christians who criticize are false christians. Such a black and white view of the world. Paul himself has criticized the church. Jesus Christ in Revelation has criticized the church.
What assessments have I made about your wife specifically? List them.
Nomad wrote:
You have been nothing but judgemental of everyone here and their lives. You have no kindness in your tounge. The bible says to speak Truth with Love. You may speak the Truth, but not in love. You only have words of judgement for people and their choices. You don't have words of wisdom or advise. Wisdom is about keeping the peace, but your words cause strife.
That's just your opinion. Also, where have I been unmerciful? That was one of your original accusations. Nowhere. I'd be careful about making things up.
Nomad wrote:
I don't consider you a brother in Christ. Someone who has so much hate for other people, I can hardly believe you have a loving relationship to God. "If a man claims to love God, but hates his brother, he is a liar".
You don't have to consider me to be a brother in Christ at all. In fact, your disregard for the possibility even shows your true feelings about Christianity and Christ. If Christ says to behave a certain way towards a brother of the faith, you better do it. Not because I say so, but because Christ does. Do as you please though. I am not the one who will be in danger of hellfire as Jesus Himself says, for insulting a brother. If Jesus says that insulting brother is a serious crime, I would refrain from doing it. It is easy enough.
Meanwhile, you're too blind to see even the irony and hypocrisy of saying you won't respect me as a brother in Christ while quoting a verse that describes how you're not of Christ if you refuse to love me. Your refusal to love me, by your own admission in this very quote above, demonstrates how you are not of Christ. You even listed the verse proving that you are not of Christ right where you said you refuse to acknowledge me as a brother. Damn. Are you even alive inside that skull?
Nomad wrote:
I disagree with this statement. I am a MGTOW, perhaps now by the MGTOW Community not, because I got married. But because of MGTOW, my standards for women went up. Had I stayed in my blue-pill days, I would of went with any woman, and it would of been my fault. However, once I woke up to the truth, I realized I needed good standards.
It's very ironic that you feel I am full of hate (for people you haven't listed), but you fail to see how MGTOW is a hate movement. MGTOW hate both men and women. I've explained it numerous times. All the drawbacks of feminism, plus they are manginas who can't get laid, and they openly recommend that men live like monks.
Nomad wrote:
So now, I'm married to my christian wife, who was a virgin, loves the Lord with all her heart, is anti-feminist, gives generously, and always see's the positive things in life. I also believe I didn't pick her, though I tell myself that, because I prayed to the Lord for a wife, and literally I met her the very same day I had a deep sincere prayer to God. I consider myself very blessed with what type of woman God gave me from what is "available" out there.
But I am not MGTOW because i'm afraid of women or afraid of the government. I'm MGTOW because i'm ANTI-Male Suffering. Mgtow to me seems to be the only movement concerned with men's suffering at this time. Now you can make arguments that they are not, but at the moment, its the only group I have personally found, who atleast gives men a voice. Not even in American churches did I find any men retreats or any real truth about the world. Only more systematic programming.
I don't care if your wife is a virgin. I don't care if she is anti-feminist. I don't care if she gives generously. What relevance is this towards anything? Did I ask for these details? You felt you must volunteer them to prove what? I never made accusation against your wife that I recall.
Let me enlighten you a little bit on Christianity here, with some facts that you should already know, but apparently you don't.
- Christ wants men and women to get married. Men Going Their Own Way is against men getting married. They recommend that men live unmarried.
- Christ wants sex to take place within marriage. MGTOW recommend for men to use and discard women, either by straight "[intercourse] 'n Chuck", limiting relationships to two years, and the advocacy of using prostitutes. Tell me, how is it you are Christian and support a movement that recommends that men break these laws of Christ?
- Christ says that doctrines which forbid men to get married are doctrines of devils (demons). Why do you support a movement which supports a doctrine of devils?
You can claim I hate all you want to. The problem is you don't even know the basics. You're just going through the motions, which you think are important. That's why you don't even know or care about little fundamental details about MGTOW that directly oppose Christ. Yet you consider yourself to be such a high Christian.
I do have ONE question for you, Nomad. Tell me, what is it a person must do in order to get into heaven? The proper answer is the only standard by which we can use to determine whether a person is a Christian or not.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.