Why do Truthers NEVER talk about leaving America as a solution and assume the whole world is the same?!

[Winston]

Check out this typical response I got from Matt's community on YouTube to my rant above. It's typical narrow American.

B Willy
7 hours ago
Or maybe there’s a reason women are calling security on you

My reply to it:

Happier Abroad - Expat Living and Dating Overseas
3 minutes ago (edited)
​ @B Willy Typical American copout. Very narrow too. They never did that in the 70s or 80s. The reason of course is that they are antisocial and anti-male and the US is a very antisocial society nowadays, especially on the West Coast. Deep down we all know this. Why deny it? You can feel it to your bone. Also, if the problem is me, how come in most other countries women don't mind flirtation or chatting them up, in fact they are flattered by it and consider it an honor to be noticed and approached. That's how true feminine women are! Watch movies from the 60s or 70s and you will see how feminine women were before, they still exist today but you gotta LEAVE America to experience it, which Matt refuses to even consider for some unknown reason. No joke. Get out of America and you will see all that i say. I promise! I've approached thousands of women in Russia, for example, and the Philippines and never once did anyone call security. It never felt taboo or wrong! HUGE difference! I swear!

Oh come off it, Winston! You know damn well that the only reason girls in the Philippines give old, ugly guys like you (and me) the time of day is because you bring something extra to the table i.e. you PAY FOR STUFF! Sure, things USED to be different in the US, Europe, East Asia etc. In our parents generation maybe an ugly geezer had a shot at a young girl, even if he wasn't rich. Dude, those days are long gone so stop CAPPING! I'll bet even the Philippines has changed a lot in the last ten years.

Surely no attractive Filipina would be honored and flattered to be approached by you. That's a complete joke.

Not true. When I first went to the Philippines in 2006 I was only 32 or 33, not old. I looked good and still do. You forget it's not always about money. I feel COMFORTABLE in my own skin in the Philippines and resonate with it and the oversoul there likes me, so I get a good vibe there. That's PRICELESS and is beyond words and beyond looks and money too. You are being too shallow. This isn't about business. Likability is subjective and about resonance. I don't feel comfortable in my own skin in the US and never have, not even when I was in my teens or twenties. It's priceless. Once you experience it, you understand and are in your ELEMENT. That's beyond words and beyond anything you are talking about. If you haven't experienced it, I feel sorry for you. When you are free of feeling any social anxiety outside, like you feel in the US when you go out, it's priceless and liberating beyond words. I swear. People start to naturally like you and coincidences tend to help you and go your way too. The flow of things tends to be in your favor more often.

Actually if you watch me approach women in the Philippines you will see them blush and giggle and definitely look FLATTERED. So you are definitely wrong about that. I swear. Ask my friends, they've seen it in person. You can tell when a woman is flattered by you, and when she is not. Body language and vibe do NOT lie. Women overseas are much more enthusiastic about men in general. If you go there and experience this you will see and become a believer. Guaranteed. Don't use the US as a barometer of what's normal and natural, it is definitely NOT. I swear to God you are definitely wrong.

You are way too shallow and narrow man. You forget that it's not all about looks. If a woman likes you, then she likes you, not for your looks. It's subjective. There's also a destiny/script in that if you are meant to be together, you will. That's how all couples form, especially married couples. Nothing to do with choice or logic. It's simply scripted in their life and so it happens naturally. You don't make it happen or force it. It's up to the universe or the will of the universe. I explained this hundreds of times already. It's obvious and the only explanation for how people hook up and do not know why or how. If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women. Why? Well that's why. It's the only logical explanation. It's all a script. There is definitely a hidden order in the universe we don't see.

[Winston]

Maybe @MarcosZeitola. What you say is always possible. However, believing that America is open and friendly and having a blank slate about it, doesn't make it so. If beliefs create reality then:

1) You could buy stocks and make a profit from them just by expecting to and being optimistic. But we all know that's not true.
2) Amellia Earhart believed and expected to make the last leg of her journey. But she didn't and vanished. So expectations don't create reality.
3) Everyone on the Titanic thought it was unsinkable and were confident about it. But we all know that they were wrong.
4) Disappointment would never exist, but we all know it does. Most things probably end up being a disappointment even if you had high hopes for it and are positive and optimistic.
Etc.

You see what I mean? I think it's the reality you live in, your destiny, whether the oversoul in that country likes you or not, whether you resonate with it or not, etc. I'm sure you've known many Europeans that agree with me too right? Such as these: www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page32.htm

[Lucas88]

America, too, can be a non-American's "greener grass", don't you think?

I agree 100%. America does indeed have its many flaws and drawbacks and much of what Winston says about it is true, but to a foreign immigrant who grew up in a grim and deprived country with not much going on for it such as a former Soviet state in the 90s America could easily seem like a vibrant and soulful paradise with all kinds of previously unknown material luxuries, culture and social freedom. I knew a Lithuanian guy on a forum in the mid 2000s. He was born in the Soviet era but absolutely hated his own country, the Lithuanian language and Russian which he was taught as a second language and was a fervent lover of American culture and the English language and often said that he wished that he had been born in the US and as a native English speaker. America just offered him a lot more than the backward and underdeveloped country of his childhood.

I don't like the UK and view it as a particularly gloomy place but there are Polish immigrants who come here and settle in my hometown and absolutely love the place. I always asked myself how could that be if I've seen places like Spain with its magnificent architecture and awesome climate. I even had this conversation with my brother. My brother once went to the Polish city of Łódź (actually pronounced similar to "wuuush", I know, funny right? ) for a football match I believe, and he told me that the place was a dark, depressing, backward shithole with barely anything remarkable at all. He said that, compared to places like that, our town in the UK with decent infrastructure and more things going on might look like a utopia to some of those who come over here from places like that.

I just looked at some photos of Łódź. The center looks pretty nice with its traditional architectural style but the Soviet-era residential buildings look awful.

It just doesn't feel that way for an American person, who would prefer any other country to his own the way I prefer many other countries to my own as well.

Just out of curiosity, Marcos, how do you view Holland?

Some people who I know think that Holland is awesome because you can take psychedelic mushrooms and legally bang hookers but it's never appealed to me and I can do those things anyway in other countries where I've lived. There's just something about Germanic cultures that I find really alien. I like Dutch people more than British people because they seem more open and friendly but I think that I could only ever truly feel at home in a Mediterranean/Latin culture.

[Lucas88]

Legal hookers and drugs do not appeal to me; I smoked some weed before, but never in great quantities or very often. It doesn't do much for me, just tires me out and makes my head feel heavy. Never made use of the services of a hooker, nor have any of my friends, for that matter. The weed and whores are something foreign tourists are into more than local guys. Plus there's plenty of hot girls around, it's never been a shortage lol. But I much prefer the more exotic types, always have... even back in college I'd much prefer some exchange student from Italy or Brazil to a local girl, although locally I liked the mixed-Caucasian Indonesian (Indo) girls, Netherlands has many hundreds of thousands of Indonesian citizens as Indonesia used to be a foreign colony, or even Middle Eastern girls who are insanely hot to me for some reason... just, love the eyes and eyebrows, drives me crazy.

That's what I suspected about the hooker and drug scene: it's mainly for the tourists rather than the local guys. I therefore imagine that the hooker scene will be rather expensive.

I never take drugs recreationally and don't even like weed. I've taken psilocybin mushrooms on four separate occasions and Ayahuasca once but those were for the purpose of achieving a mystical experience and not simply to get high. I've not taken psychedelics since 2018 because after the Ayahuasca ceremony I felt that I've seen all that I need to see and that I don't have to take anything like that again or at least not for a long time. I took psychedelic substances in Spain and the UK. I didn't even need to go to the Netherlands. I've never cared about the law anyway.

I've gone with escorts before. It was after I broke up with my Peruvian ex-girlfriend and a friend of mine took me to a brothel in Valencia. All I can say is that for a few years of my life it became a habit but I hardly see escorts anymore. Again I wouldn't see any reason to go to Amsterdam for that sort of stuff. There are perfectly good independent escorts with model looks in Spain who charge 60 euros for half hour and 100 euros for an hour or sometimes even a little less. I tend to hate touristic places with inflated prices anyway. I almost never go to touristic resorts. I insist on going to less-known places and integrating with the locals. In fact, I have little interest in travelling outside of the Hispanic world (my geographic and cultural passion) anyway. I planned to go to Thailand with some friend from my MMA gym to train Muay Thai and get on some Asian chicks (I've still never got on an Asian) but the plan fell through.

But yeah, I like the exotic, brown-skinned girls too. I imagine that there are a lot who fit that description in the Netherlands due to the former colonies. I imagine you'll get a lot of nice Black women from places like Suriname.

[Outcast9428]

It's all about vibe. When you feel like shit, any change of location can help. Like you could be feeling down in Asia or Europe and find "salvation" in America of all places. People tend to get upset and hurt by whatever place they grow up in, declare it "a soulless dump" and go to literally any other country, any other culture, and declare it Valhalla. @Winston if you grew up inRussia, China or the Philippines and went to America in your twenties instead of the other way around, you may have loved America far more. Like how guys like @Yohan or me aren't necessarily too fond of Europe, for instance, whereas you love the "philosophical awesome European chicks" lol. Grass really is always greener.

As for America? I don't know. It could be every bit the soulless dump y'all claim it is, or maybe there's some little vestiges of joy and sanity left here and there as @Outcast9428 said a few times; he's quite fond, apparantly, of the American South. It's all a matter of perspectives. And I don't expect too much Truth from people who spell Truthers with a Capital T as if they hold the monopoly on it lol. But that's just me, man.

It's true @MarcosZeitola that the "grass is greener on the other side" phenomenon is real. I've seen plenty of examples of it. Murphy's law seems to have something to do with it too, since the matrix likes to give you a hard time just to be a dick.

However Marcos, we can easily do a field test to prove my point. We can go to your neck of the woods in Amsterdam, Holland and then here to Las Vegas, NV. You will see that Amsterdam has a social vibe, people will talk to you, there is not this huge ice barrier between strangers. It has a friendly social vibe for sure and people are more down to earth. But here in Vegas no one talks to strangers, there's a thick ice wall between people and it feels immoral and taboo to talk to strangers. No joke. I swear. There is not a positive vibe here where you can socialize with people freely at all. Only elderly people are down to earth in America, but in Europe the mainstream is far more down to earth and mature and old souled.

So you see, it doesn't matter where you are from Marcos, if you do this field test with me, you will see the difference for your own eyes. Do you see what I mean? This is objective and first hand and easily testable if you fly to both locations.

That might be because its Las Vegas, basically Los Angeles-lite.

The anxiety you talk about on a constant basis, I definitely felt that in college. College just felt like a hostile environment. I would drive up there and instantly start feeling more depressed as I got closer to my apartment. Coming home always made me feel better and I started to feel anxiety at the end of my breaks about having to go back. The longer I was at college the more depressed I would feel until I could come home one weekend. People kept telling me while I was in college, "why are you so depressed? These are supposed to be the best four years of your life! Make the most of them!"

So far, college was easily the worst four years of my life. I've been out of college for two years now, and my life has become so much, exponentially better. I think the difference for me and other people who become depressed in college is that I realized this was going to end at some point. I knew I wasn't like that before college and that I wasn't like that when I wasn't physically at my college. I hated college so much I didn't even attend my own graduation ceremony. My parents kept on telling me I was going to regret missing it, but the truth is, I don't. I don't miss it one bit, and I have no desire to visit it again. Graduating was like escaping from prison for me, and I had no desire to go back to my prison in order to celebrate my release.

I do feel a fondness for the American South. Especially Virginia. Virginia feels like everything my college wasn't... Innocent, family oriented, a relaxed vibe. People here are so much nicer then the people at my college were. I delivered pizzas during college and only met like 1 or 2 rude customers and unlike most people's experiences with service type jobs, I really came out of that feeling like the people I'm surrounded by are pretty good people. I don't feel any anxiety or depression at all in my hometown.

I started dating a girl just recently, she is super cute, Asian, and is so open about her affection for me. This girl actually lives in my hometown, so thank God I don't have that long distance problem anymore.

I do feel like the South is different. People here are sane, relatively friendly, and there's a much more innocent and wholesome vibe to this place.

[Lucas88]

I'm kinda with @WilliamSmith on this one; the prizes are part of the reason why prostitution scares me off. Like I'd rather just buy some premium quality smoked salmon or some really good steak and have a little cookout with some friends in my garden, get some drinks and have a lovely little culinary get-together which would cost me about 100 bucks, and instead opt for a free f**k when the opportunity presents itself (which is often enough, anyway).

I completely understand where you and William are coming from even though I used to have a habit of seeing escorts. When the girl is into you and gets really passionate it's awesome (like that time when the blonde Venezuelan girl was really into me and invited me back for some free intimacy) but most of the time the girl is just doing her job and the service turns out to be really forced and mechanical and unsatisfying. All while draining your bank balance too if you're not careful. Most of the time prostitution is nowhere near as good as the real thing with a willing lady. Prostitution is overrated. It's just that I'll check out an escort website from time to time and find a Latina with perfect booty and bodily proportions and I just can't resist! It's as though I'm paying for aesthetic perfection rather than intimacy. But friends-with-benefits arrangements with sexy and classy Latina milfs are usually better. My predominant sexual fantasy is being a masculine young athlete giving sexually frustrated, hot, passionate Latina milfs some good loving!

Asian chicks can be awesome. I take it you're more of an ass man, whereas I'm more of a tit-man; I especially adore large perky nipples, an area in which Asian girls are particularly well-endowed, even if their titties may not be overly large, they'll definitely be firm and well-formed, sensitive to a fault. You'll find some very nice booties, too, but the Latina-level is a rare find down in the Far East.

Yep, I'm into huge booties just like our womanaholic friend @WilliamSmith. For me, the bigger the better.

Surinamese chicks, yes, plenty. Personally I prefer the mixed Antillian ones tho, like girls who have one Dutch and one black parent from one of the islands like Aruba, Curacao, Bonaire... but yeah, there's enough "color" out there and enough curves to make a man happy.

That's some good information. Now I can research all of the different Caribbean ethnicities and mixes that are common in the Netherlands. I remember seeing those kinds of mixed women in Dutch Eurodance music videos and finding them super exotic and attractive. I'll check out some photos. If I lived in the Netherlands that's probably the type of girl I'd go for.

[Space Invaders]

Check out this typical response I got from Matt's community on YouTube to my rant above. It's typical narrow American.

B Willy
7 hours ago
Or maybe there’s a reason women are calling security on you

My reply to it:

Happier Abroad - Expat Living and Dating Overseas
3 minutes ago (edited)
​ @B Willy Typical American copout. Very narrow too. They never did that in the 70s or 80s. The reason of course is that they are antisocial and anti-male and the US is a very antisocial society nowadays, especially on the West Coast. Deep down we all know this. Why deny it? You can feel it to your bone. Also, if the problem is me, how come in most other countries women don't mind flirtation or chatting them up, in fact they are flattered by it and consider it an honor to be noticed and approached. That's how true feminine women are! Watch movies from the 60s or 70s and you will see how feminine women were before, they still exist today but you gotta LEAVE America to experience it, which Matt refuses to even consider for some unknown reason. No joke. Get out of America and you will see all that i say. I promise! I've approached thousands of women in Russia, for example, and the Philippines and never once did anyone call security. It never felt taboo or wrong! HUGE difference! I swear!

Oh come off it, Winston! You know damn well that the only reason girls in the Philippines give old, ugly guys like you (and me) the time of day is because you bring something extra to the table i.e. you PAY FOR STUFF! Sure, things USED to be different in the US, Europe, East Asia etc. In our parents generation maybe an ugly geezer had a shot at a young girl, even if he wasn't rich. Dude, those days are long gone so stop CAPPING! I'll bet even the Philippines has changed a lot in the last ten years.

Surely no attractive Filipina would be honored and flattered to be approached by you. That's a complete joke.

Not true. When I first went to the Philippines in 2006 I was only 32 or 33, not old. I looked good and still do. You forget it's not always about money. I feel COMFORTABLE in my own skin in the Philippines and resonate with it and the oversoul there likes me, so I get a good vibe there. That's PRICELESS and is beyond words and beyond looks and money too. You are being too shallow. This isn't about business. Likability is subjective and about resonance. I don't feel comfortable in my own skin in the US and never have, not even when I was in my teens or twenties. It's priceless. Once you experience it, you understand and are in your ELEMENT. That's beyond words and beyond anything you are talking about. If you haven't experienced it, I feel sorry for you. When you are free of feeling any social anxiety outside, like you feel in the US when you go out, it's priceless and liberating beyond words. I swear. People start to naturally like you and coincidences tend to help you and go your way too. The flow of things tends to be in your favor more often.

Actually if you watch me approach women in the Philippines you will see them blush and giggle and definitely look FLATTERED. So you are definitely wrong about that. I swear. Ask my friends, they've seen it in person. You can tell when a woman is flattered by you, and when she is not. Body language and vibe do NOT lie. Women overseas are much more enthusiastic about men in general. If you go there and experience this you will see and become a believer. Guaranteed. Don't use the US as a barometer of what's normal and natural, it is definitely NOT. I swear to God you are definitely wrong.

You are way too shallow and narrow man. You forget that it's not all about looks. If a woman likes you, then she likes you, not for your looks. It's subjective. There's also a destiny/script in that if you are meant to be together, you will. That's how all couples form, especially married couples. Nothing to do with choice or logic. It's simply scripted in their life and so it happens naturally. You don't make it happen or force it. It's up to the universe or the will of the universe. I explained this hundreds of times already. It's obvious and the only explanation for how people hook up and do not know why or how. If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women. Why? Well that's why. It's the only logical explanation. It's all a script. There is definitely a hidden order in the universe we don't see.

Are you smoking crack? You were not handsome in 2006 and you definitely do not look good in 2024. You are delusional.

I agree that relationships between men and women are not all strictly about looks and money. There are intangibles at play. However, looks, money, and status do play the driving role in attraction. This is undeniable. To claim otherwise would be, again, quite delusional.

I am sure you are aware of the ever increasing impact of social media on interpersonal relations. The Philippines may not be as affected (or infected perhaps) as the US and Taiwan, two countries you hate, but they soon will be. Girls, everywhere, are pickier than ever. Do you have any RECENT videos of you seducing young Filipinas? I doubt it.

"If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women"

I will admit that Chinese girls are not as hung up on looks as the Koreans and Japanese. Not particularly interested in money either. Mostly they like to go to restaurants and eat good food.

[rudder]

@Winston
Could you please define "truther" for us please?

I mean people who believe in conspiracies and the NWO, who listen to either Alex Jones and David Icke, or YouTubers like Matt McKinley, Howard Mickoski, and countless many others, etc. It is comprised of many people and is an American subculture. Some think the world is real and that government corruption and greed explains everything in this world, others see sinister spiritual forces running things or sinister aliens pulling the strings, and others thing reality is not even real, like Matt does, whom I mentioned above.

Come on. The Truth movement and community has been well established since the 1990s with William Cooper and then became much more popular after 9/11. Remember? Everyone knows about them now. They are all over YouTube and Bitchute and most of the guys here are Truthers too. Remember? It means you seek the truth beyond what government and Wikipedia and CNN tells you.

There were even Truthers in 1798 when Jon Robison wrote a book alleging Illuminati conspiracies in America, which George Washington in a letter acknowledged there was truth to. And the Christian community in America have always feared the Illuminati since then and their infiltration of churches too.

So this is an established subculture in America. So why do you have to ask? There are many modern forms though. Some believe we are in the matrix. Others like @Moretorque believe that corrupt bankers are behind everything.

Anyway, why are none of you addressing the main questions in my OP?

I did address at least some of them in the post above the one you quoted.

I know what you mean by truther. Just wanted to make sure as your first post kind of threw me off.

In general, I don't hear truthers speaking much about other countries period. David Icke isn't from America, but England basically is equal to the USA.

Same or worse than the US? I tend to agree with that.

Which places are better? I.e. Have a heftier middle class, high quality of life, personal freedoms, good jobs market, entrepreneur-friendly, upward social mobility, friendly people, etc.

Personally, your juxtaposition of the Netherlands and the USA was total BS in my book. I lived in europe in 2009 and travelled that summer for a couple months all over the entire continent - amsterdam included) I found Europeans to be way more cold and serious than people in America. Maybe it's different now over a decade later? Of course covaids and masking probably ruined the social climate in all places of the world beyond belief.

Edit: I can see how someone with an asian phenotype would fare worse socially in the USA versus European countries.

[rudder]

It's true @MarcosZeitola that the "grass is greener on the other side" phenomenon is real. I've seen plenty of examples of it. Murphy's law seems to have something to do with it too, since the matrix likes to give you a hard time just to be a dick.

However Marcos, we can easily do a field test to prove my point. We can go to your neck of the woods in Amsterdam, Holland and then here to Las Vegas, NV. You will see that Amsterdam has a social vibe, people will talk to you, there is not this huge ice barrier between strangers. It has a friendly social vibe for sure and people are more down to earth. But here in Vegas no one talks to strangers, there's a thick ice wall between people and it feels immoral and taboo to talk to strangers. No joke. I swear. There is not a positive vibe here where you can socialize with people freely at all. Only elderly people are down to earth in America, but in Europe the mainstream is far more down to earth and mature and old souled.

So you see, it doesn't matter where you are from Marcos, if you do this field test with me, you will see the difference for your own eyes. Do you see what I mean? This is objective and first hand and easily testable if you fly to both locations.

I think even in your field test, America would be "exotic" to me as a European, and I may likewise be seen as exotic and interesting by American girls due to my foreign nationality. So again, America would be the "greener grass" to me as someone who grew up in Western Europe and therefore doesn't view it as something special and remarkable. Whereas for you, Europe is this amazing magical place because of how different it feels to you compared to America. A cousin of mine, Dutch guy, went to America and absolutely had a blast, he studied there, ended up getting a job and marrying an American girl. He now has two kids and lives in Los Angeles.

As I said, I never visited America. But chances are I'd like it better and do better there than you, because for me, America is still unique and special. My impression of it wasn't yet tainted by negative experiences and past trauma from my youth the way it was for you. America wasn't kind to you... but for many foreigners, we start with this blank slate and things may be different.

That doesn't believe I do not believe you when you discuss the copious flaws and faults of American culture, @Winston because I do believe you on that. It's just a matter of perspective. America, too, can be a non-American's "greener grass", don't you think? It just doesn't feel that way for an American person, who would prefer any other country to his own the way I prefer many other countries to my own as well.

American people are great. I bet most people on this forum are americans.

[Winston]

A hard out of the box question I posted under some truther videos that I watch:

"To All Truthers: I don't understand something. Here in Taiwan a nice restaurant meal costs 6 dollars or less with NO taxes or tips! Same in all of Asia, no taxes or tips required, unlike the ripoff prices you pay in the US! I also have full healthcare coverage for a small copay. The people in Asia are also very nice and humble, not toxic and arrogant like in America. And the streets are clean and super safe and crime free, there are no bad neighborhoods where you can get mugged. And I feel no stress or anxiety because once you are out of Satanic America, you feel a lot more stress free and your mental health is much better. Cost of living is way less too, not outrageous like America. Cops in Asia (including China) are also very polite and nonconfrontational too, not a-holes like in America. So basically, when you leave America nearly all your problems are SOLVED! So WHY do you continue to believe that America = the world and that the option to leave America doesn't exist, as Matt and most truthers falsely assume?! I don't get it. Are you all blind to anything outside the US matrix? Why do you have a mental block to my obvious and BEST solution? When I talk about this, you truthers seem to have a switch inside you that causes you to tune me out. Why?! Are you all NPCs and robotically controlled without your knowing? Yet you call yourselves "freethinkers" so go figure. Watch some of my latest podcasts for more on this obvious solution if you're interested. Thanks."

A challenge to Eric Dubay that I posted under his latest video "DIY solutions to the NWO". Even though he lives in Thailand and must know our HA solution, he won't talk about it for some reason. He's courageous about flat earth but chickenshit about HA for some reason. Very strange.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dgH1FyQ7Uo

"Eric, you live abroad in Thailand where cost of living is dirt cheap, even cheaper than Taiwan or the Philippines. So you have no excuse. You must KNOW about my happier abroad solution. Yet you are afraid to talk about it. For some reason you are courageous about flat earth, but totally chicken when it comes to happier abroad. Why? I'm sure you know that leaving America can SOLVE most if not all your problems. You must know that Eric since you live my solution! So why do you not mention it even once???!!! What's wrong? My HA solution is definitely more important than flat earth if you think about it, because it applies to everyday life and is something you experience, feel, and touch everyday. See my podcasts Eric, where I promote it passionately. Why won't you touch this with a ten foot pole? What's the problem Eric?"

[Winston]

Check out this typical response I got from Matt's community on YouTube to my rant above. It's typical narrow American.

B Willy
7 hours ago
Or maybe there’s a reason women are calling security on you

My reply to it:

Happier Abroad - Expat Living and Dating Overseas
3 minutes ago (edited)
​ @B Willy Typical American copout. Very narrow too. They never did that in the 70s or 80s. The reason of course is that they are antisocial and anti-male and the US is a very antisocial society nowadays, especially on the West Coast. Deep down we all know this. Why deny it? You can feel it to your bone. Also, if the problem is me, how come in most other countries women don't mind flirtation or chatting them up, in fact they are flattered by it and consider it an honor to be noticed and approached. That's how true feminine women are! Watch movies from the 60s or 70s and you will see how feminine women were before, they still exist today but you gotta LEAVE America to experience it, which Matt refuses to even consider for some unknown reason. No joke. Get out of America and you will see all that i say. I promise! I've approached thousands of women in Russia, for example, and the Philippines and never once did anyone call security. It never felt taboo or wrong! HUGE difference! I swear!

Oh come off it, Winston! You know damn well that the only reason girls in the Philippines give old, ugly guys like you (and me) the time of day is because you bring something extra to the table i.e. you PAY FOR STUFF! Sure, things USED to be different in the US, Europe, East Asia etc. In our parents generation maybe an ugly geezer had a shot at a young girl, even if he wasn't rich. Dude, those days are long gone so stop CAPPING! I'll bet even the Philippines has changed a lot in the last ten years.

Surely no attractive Filipina would be honored and flattered to be approached by you. That's a complete joke.

Not true. When I first went to the Philippines in 2006 I was only 32 or 33, not old. I looked good and still do. You forget it's not always about money. I feel COMFORTABLE in my own skin in the Philippines and resonate with it and the oversoul there likes me, so I get a good vibe there. That's PRICELESS and is beyond words and beyond looks and money too. You are being too shallow. This isn't about business. Likability is subjective and about resonance. I don't feel comfortable in my own skin in the US and never have, not even when I was in my teens or twenties. It's priceless. Once you experience it, you understand and are in your ELEMENT. That's beyond words and beyond anything you are talking about. If you haven't experienced it, I feel sorry for you. When you are free of feeling any social anxiety outside, like you feel in the US when you go out, it's priceless and liberating beyond words. I swear. People start to naturally like you and coincidences tend to help you and go your way too. The flow of things tends to be in your favor more often.

Actually if you watch me approach women in the Philippines you will see them blush and giggle and definitely look FLATTERED. So you are definitely wrong about that. I swear. Ask my friends, they've seen it in person. You can tell when a woman is flattered by you, and when she is not. Body language and vibe do NOT lie. Women overseas are much more enthusiastic about men in general. If you go there and experience this you will see and become a believer. Guaranteed. Don't use the US as a barometer of what's normal and natural, it is definitely NOT. I swear to God you are definitely wrong.

You are way too shallow and narrow man. You forget that it's not all about looks. If a woman likes you, then she likes you, not for your looks. It's subjective. There's also a destiny/script in that if you are meant to be together, you will. That's how all couples form, especially married couples. Nothing to do with choice or logic. It's simply scripted in their life and so it happens naturally. You don't make it happen or force it. It's up to the universe or the will of the universe. I explained this hundreds of times already. It's obvious and the only explanation for how people hook up and do not know why or how. If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women. Why? Well that's why. It's the only logical explanation. It's all a script. There is definitely a hidden order in the universe we don't see.

Are you smoking crack? You were not handsome in 2006 and you definitely do not look good in 2024. You are delusional.

I agree that relationships between men and women are not all strictly about looks and money. There are intangibles at play. However, looks, money, and status do play the driving role in attraction. This is undeniable. To claim otherwise would be, again, quite delusional.

I am sure you are aware of the ever increasing impact of social media on interpersonal relations. The Philippines may not be as affected (or infected perhaps) as the US and Taiwan, two countries you hate, but they soon will be. Girls, everywhere, are pickier than ever. Do you have any RECENT videos of you seducing young Filipinas? I doubt it.

"If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women"

I will admit that Chinese girls are not as hung up on looks as the Koreans and Japanese. Not particularly interested in money either. Mostly they like to go to restaurants and eat good food.

Whether I'm handsome or not is your opinion. Others may disagree. Even some guys here like Moretorque and Jamesbond think I'm handsome. Many girls think I am too, in SE Asia and some in Russia did too. Your opinions are your opinions only, not fact. It's obvious you must be unattractive, because only unattractive men call other men ugly. Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise would not call me ugly, because they have no need to try to bring down other men to their level since they are above other men. Ugly men like you need to bring others down to your level so you don't feel alone.

It's not all talk either. Women who say I am handsome also treat me like I am handsome too.

Yes I have recent photos of me seducing young Filipinas. I don't need to post them because I already posted many in the past. But yes I do have many pics of them. I'm a photo person, not a video person so I don't take many videos especially since videos taken on smart phones tend to be huge and run up to gigabytes and use up too much storage space. But yes I do have recent photos from my last trip to the Philippines where I dated and banged many girls. You wanna see them? If so, they are in my Google Albums. I can PM the link to you if you promise to keep them confidential. Some of them are not G rated.

Of course Chinese women are big on money, they tend to be very materialistic and practical. Everyone knows that. How do you not? I was saying that it's all destiny and intangible factors. There is a script that runs out lives from the matrix. That's why certain couples get together. They have a karma and script to follow. Looks get attention, but ultimately a couple is together because they are meant to be so it happens naturally. They don't "make it happen". So those couples you see in China of ugly men with good looking women may just be destiny or inner connection or the man may be her sugar daddy. But even to be a long term sugar daddy, the woman has to like you to some extent. It can't be zero.

Btw, you went off on a tangent in this thread by taking cheap shots at my looks, instead of addressing my main questions in the OP. Why? Can't you answer my questions in the first post of this thread? If not, why do you even bother replying? I'm not asking for cheap shots here. Just answers to my questions.

[Winston]

Check this out. I emailed Wayne Bush of www.trickedbythelight.com. He is one of these new truthers that believe the entire world is a prison matrix and the only way to be free and find peace and happiness is to exit the matrix after you die by avoiding the false light trap. So basically, they believe the world is nothing but suffering and not worth living in and that there are no greener pastures to be found in this world, so the only way to be free is to escape it. Yet they cannot prove that whatever is out there beyond the matrix is any better. So go figure. They are even more pessimistic and negative than me since they think they have to escape the whole world to be happy rather than seeking greener pastures outside of America. Anyway, I asked Wayne Bush why he and his crowd (e.g. Matt McKinley, Howdie Mickoski, etc.) don't consider seeking greener pastures abroad rather than having to leave the whole matrix. Here is his reply. Notice he sidestepped my question as though he has some type of MENTAL BLOCK toward my question and solution. Why?! Also notice that he seems to only see the negative in foreign countries. That's very sad. Worse than we are.

Wayne Bush:

Thanks, not sure if I have seen this one. I'll look into it.

Regarding the manifesting reality with intention and "expectations" etc., I think that either has to be done or is much more easily done once one has passed over or at least when in the astral or void while dreaming and having an OBE or lucid dreaming experience. I agree that it is pretty hard to do here from the physical, but would require a lot of time and effort and consistent intention to do so.

And, yes, I have been overseas. I have been to the Philippines for six weeks, Costa Rica many times and also Cancun. I don't know about Taiwan per se, but all the places I went to can be very dangerous and I have been targeted for robbery and have heard stories about ladyboys etc. ganging up on people in parks.

This world has pockets of good areas, of course, but there is still a lot of deception and suffering in this world. My mom was diagnosed for the third time with cancer. There are people with cancer and other diseases as well as hunger, warfare, etc. in all countries.

[Winston]

Message I posted on YouTube for all of Howdie Mickoski's fans, who believe that they have to leave the whole world/matrix in order to escape suffering and find happiness.

To All of Howdie's Fans: I don't understand something. Why do you feel you have to leave the whole world/matrix rather than seeking GREENER pastures ABROAD? Here in Taiwan a nice restaurant meal costs 6 dollars or less with NO taxes or tips! Same in all of Asia, no taxes or tips required, unlike the ripoff prices you pay in the US! I also have full healthcare coverage for a small copay. The people in Asia are also very nice and humble, not toxic and arrogant like in America. And the streets are clean and super safe and crime free, there are no bad neighborhoods where you can get mugged. And I feel no stress or anxiety because once you are out of Satanic America, you feel a lot more stress free and your mental health is much better. Cost of living is way less too, not outrageous like America. Cops in Asia (including China) are also very polite and nonconfrontational too, not a-holes like in America. So basically, when you leave America nearly all your problems are SOLVED! So WHY do you continue to believe that America = the world and that the option to leave America doesn't exist, as Matt and most truthers falsely assume?! I don't get it. Are you all blind to anything outside the US matrix? Why do you have a mental block to my obvious and BEST solution? When I talk about this, you truthers seem to have a switch inside you that causes you to tune me out. Why?! Are you all NPCs and robotically controlled without your knowing? Yet you call yourselves "freethinkers" so go figure. Watch some of my latest podcasts for more on this obvious solution if you're interested. Thanks.

[Winston]

Important question for all truthers in the "exit the matrix/tricked by the light" crowd

To All Truthers and Their Fans:

I don't understand something. Why do you feel you have to leave the whole world/matrix rather than seeking GREENER pastures ABROAD? Here in Taiwan a nice restaurant meal costs 6 dollars or less with NO taxes or tips! Same in all of Asia, no taxes or tips required, unlike the ripoff prices you pay in the US! I also have full healthcare coverage for a small copay. The people in Asia are also very nice and humble, not toxic and arrogant like in America. And the streets are clean and super safe and crime free, there are no bad neighborhoods where you can get mugged. And I feel no stress or anxiety because once you are out of Satanic America, you feel a lot more stress free and your mental health is much better. Cost of living is way less too, not outrageous like America. Cops in Asia (including China) are also very polite and nonconfrontational too, not a-holes like in America. So basically, when you leave America nearly all your problems are SOLVED! So WHY do you continue to believe that America = the world and that the option to leave America doesn't exist, as Matt and most truthers falsely assume?! I don't get it. Are you all blind to anything outside the US matrix? Why do you have a mental block to my obvious and BEST solution? When I talk about this, you truthers seem to have a switch inside you that causes you to tune me out. Why?! Are you all NPCs and robotically controlled without your knowing? Yet you call yourselves "freethinkers" so go figure. Watch some of my latest podcasts below for more on this obvious solution if you're interested. Thanks.

https://www.youtube.com/@happierabroad/videos

[Winston]

See below how everyone assumes America is the world so everything you dislike about life in America also applies to the whole world. See my reply below. How can everyone be universally blind, including truthers?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgvPkrNsuug

Orphan Annie
3 weeks ago (edited)
I am all for a hard days work but I feel that I am in a never-ending loop of eat, sleep, shower, toil, and pay bills that is by design. Then even if we get everything paid off we start over if something breaks down, gets stolen, or if mother destroys it. If we add up the the time for sleeping and working alone we have very little life left to enjoy our fruits of our labor.

Its so retarded that our bodies require so much maintenance and cruel that we are being forced to pay for our most basic needs. Maybe, we don't have junk DNA but cut off DNA from all the poisons and jabs. No matter where I go there is always this underlying feeling of not belonging and being in a prison held against my will. They have us trapped here in a daily grind just to survive in this realm.

We should have access to our most basic needs regardless of ability to pay. When I was a child, I would get the willies walking the store aisles looking at all the prices on everything and could not wrap my head around why my mum had to stand in a long line to pay for food or why my dad had to work all the time to pay bills.

Even when it comes to careers in the corporate world not just anybody gets to become a CEO or gets a business loan or gets a brand name. It doesn't matter how smart you are or how many degrees you get its all controlled. The entire game of life is rigged, I have seen it for myself.

Ignorance is bliss
3 weeks ago (edited)
You're seeing reality for what it is. You're awake, and that's scarce.

"Held in a prison against my will." You hit the nail on the head.

All these chores every day for decades just to pay even for the most basic needs just so you can survive.

This reality is like a very bad dream. the only difference is you don't wake up from it, so here we are waiting for bodily death, but not even that might liberate the spirit unless you've gained the necessary knowledge to escape this matrix for good.

Helping our fellow victims of this prison once we escape so that they may also have a chance, then we can go ahead and shut this place down.

Orphan Annie
3 weeks ago
@Ignorance is bliss
30 year mortgage to pay off your house,
5 years to pay off your car,
day after day pay for your food,
week after week pay for your gas,
month after month pay for utilities,
year after year pay to fix this and that,
Meanwhile, your body falls apart too busy to repair it,
5 years later your buying a new car,
30 years later your house is your prison,
Your now retired too poor to leave it,
Meanwhile, your house falls apart cant afford to repair it,
Then when you die they mark your grave with all caps,
You were never living you were only a dead man walking,
Its called an American dream because that's all you were doing.

Orphan Annie
3 weeks ago (edited)
@Ignorance is bliss I know people who love this realm and are happy lost in space as a spinning monkey. I am with you this is a bad dream. Lets shut this place down its grotesque in so many ways and with all the money grubbing in the truth community it makes me want to vomit. Sanity Machine is the only YouTuber that I know exposing it.

Orphan Annie
3 weeks ago
@Ignorance is bliss I wish people could see that slavery is masked as careers.

ketan Natekar
3 weeks ago
respected orphan annie i totally agree with you.what do u think could be the solution to end all these sufferings and escape from this realm? please guide.my opinion is ahead---unfortunately we don't have choice,some unknown power forced us to change various bodies from animals,birds,beasts,aquatics,human beings etc.we don't hold power to decide whether to take birth in this hellhole or not,where to take birth,in which family,in which species on earth we absolutely have no power over any of it.that's very scary part.

ketan Natekar
3 weeks ago
I request you to create an eco village community of like minded spiritual truth seekers who want to escape the reincarnation cycle,so that we all truth seekers can live safely away from matrix slavery control system.I have a land,i invite you and all like minded people.lets co create healthy,natural life.

Happier Abroad: Escape USA & Date Foreign Women!
4 minutes ago (edited)
Yeah life can be drudgery, but that's because you don't have joy and passion and a purpose to live for. Also you probably lack love and romance too, because if you had a beautiful spouse by your side to love and cuddle with every night, and a circle of warm caring friends, then the drugery of life would be worth putting up with and become much more tolerable. Another problem is that you think the problem is the whole world when the real problem is AMERICA. What I mean is that if you moved abroad life would be more interesting and fun, alive, genuine, and soulful because America is a very soulless and empty country and you are programmed to blame the world because you falsely assume that America = the world when it does not. Even if you just move to Mexico you will see that there is no social isolation or loneliness there, and no social anxiety either. You can be yourself and get wild and do what you want without restrictions and everything is much cheaper too. Same with Philippines, Thailand, and Latin America, etc. So the real problem is AMERICA, not yourself or the whole world. That's what the truth movement is blind to for some reason. If you listen to some of my podcasts I go into this in detail. Just something to consider. I'm the only truther with real solutions but other truthers are blind to my solution for some reason. Thanks for considering my point.