TheTeacherWhoHatesLies wrote:Franco wrote:TheTeacherWhoHatesLies wrote:
When I said you never seriously took steps to find "the one," I meant that you never took those steps in ASIA where an Asian guy like you should have had little problem landing a pretty young Filipina. Weren't the odds supposed to be stacked in your favor? Why didn't you play them? Instead, the moment you landed in the Philippines, you went straight to Angeles City, and spent almost all your time exclusively with bargirls. I'd like to believe that you actually pursued or dated middle-class (by Phils standards), non-bar girls outside of AC. But frankly, I see no such reports by you of ever having done so. This is not chick logic, but truth. Can't you not see that?
Yeah these women are "bar girls", "whores" but they are human beings at the end of the day. Show some respect in your words. Prostitution should be legalized and taxed like any other physical profession. American footballers are paid to throw a ball around and wear padding like hoes. The criminalization of prostitution is criminal itself. These women need health services and financial budgeting courses. Escorting should be a means to pay for education or to just get by and live each day. As long as there is DEMAND, there will be plenty of SUPPLY. Basic 101 economics. Money is power anywhere. A man has needs and will seek to fulfill those needs. You cannot deny your nature. If you find a good woman, settle down with her. But don't speak garbage about other women you have no idea about. Show kindness instead of bitterness.
Don't accuse me of something I'm not doing. No, I'm not speaking garbage about these women. Yes, they're human beings, and they are bar girls. That's not a slur or an insult. That's the normal term to describe their job. There's nothing disrespectful about that. A girl who turns tricks for a living is a pr0stitute, and that's what I'm going to call her, because that's what she is.
Many bar girls/prostitutes in the Philippines and other parts of SE Asia are a number of notches above many American girls. It's often rampant slutting around vs sleeping with men for economic needs. At least bar girls know they have sold themselves. What do American sluts know?
They still think they are in charge and empowered and full of SELF ESTEEM despite their slutting.
To show kindness and compassion to the poor is also to care about the prostitute/GRO etc.
I do not patronize GROs/bar girls in the Philippines- I am happily married to a lovely girl and mother of our new son, but if you live with the very poor for a while, it gives you insight about why some girls opt that way. Rather than understand poverty, most men, including most on this forum, simply make trite judgements about it.
GRINDING POVERTY.
It means...watching your child die in your arms because you did not have the $6 worth of medicine needed to save her. It means NEVER in your life having has an actual new from the store item of clothing. It means YOUR children do not go to school because they have not shoes..
POVERTY LEADS TO A FORM OF DEMENTIA
It's pain knowing your teenage daughter spends time getting stuffed by strangers.
It's pain, walking by a church and seeing a wedding in process...knowing that will never be you.
It's pain being driven to eating cast off food scraps.
Compared to all this, cavorting with strangers and sleeping with them, might seem pretty positive.
You have plenty to eat, you give money to your family, and poverty is seemingly within your control.
LIVE TODAY, BECAUSE TOMORROW YOU DIE.
What is the future for these girls? Not much. Bad Johns or a manager who beats the crap out of them.
STDs, abortions or kids by random strangers. Party for today, because tomorrow is pretty grim.
When they get too old, they are DONE. There is not exactly a retirement plan for SE Asian prostitutes.
Do the men banging them every think of what will become of these girls?
But wait. I thought these men were reminding us that the girls are human beings after all.
Men cavorting with these girls like in the pics here do not want to think of what will happen to
these girls. After all, it's all about "My needs". It will not end well for these girls.
It would be better if hooking were a managed profession vs what will happen to most of these girls in AC.
St Augustine wrote that prostitution and vice was a moral sewer system that conducted vile impulses away from civilized society. I think he may have been right. That said, there are many GROs in the Philippines that are better human beings than most American feminist self-righteous wench types.
If I had to chose, they would simply be better company.
The fact that many Western women are awful does not make prostitution wonderful. It simply makes it necessary and profitable. To say that "This is the way it should be" with girls is simply ignorant.
It is not the way it should be, it is the way it is, grime and all. Where do worn out GROs go to die?
Oh, it will never happen to them. They will save some money and escape the life.
The party men. Oh, they will someday find a good girl and settle down. yah, right. They will not.
Both the girls and the men are living in a place called fantasy and delusion. So please men, do pretend that your are screwing these girls because you care about them. You do not. The men who care about them might very well be working with organizations that help girls escape the life into other occupations and mindsets. These girls a are a piece of meat that you screw to satisfy yourself.
The girls rent the meat, fair and square. It's all packaged in the party atmosphere in AC.
Someday, both of you may wish life could have been different, back when you both had choices.
The mongers and the girls they bang, do not live in a world of decency, modesty, compassion or love.
Those who do live in such a world can feel sorry for both of them.
Party on, dudes.
