HAPPIER
ABROAD
Why
Dating, Social Life and Mental Health are Better Beyond
Debunking the Myth of Freedom and Democracy in
(with Facts and
Overseas Experiences)
These cherished
fanatical beliefs of
This is not an essay
promoting anti-Americanism, but merely exposes the truth. We compare fact vs.
fiction, reality vs. BS, truth vs. propaganda, and experience vs. illusion.
Truth is our bottom line, not conformity.
What is very revealing
is that only those Americans who have never left their country for long believe
in these myths, whereas American expats who have lived in multiple countries or
are well-traveled (including me) do NOT, but in fact KNOW that they are
hogwash. Now, what does that tell you?!
As a matter of fact,
(Remember that no one
considers themself to be "the bad guy". Even Hitler and Stalin do not
view themselves as "evil" or "bad guys". They found excuses
and reasons to justify in their own mind whatever atrocities they committed as
"righteous".)
These facts shatter
these cherished American myths about itself, exposing them for what they really
are - pure self-propaganda. Thus,
With that, I ask: Why
does
We will get into the
reasons why later.
These myths about
freedom and democracy are programmed into the American populace, who are taught
to chant them like religious mantras without thought or critical examination.
There is no question that it's a form of brainwashing.
The few who think
outside the box and are able to bypass their programming see through the
falsity of these lies. However, there is a price to pay for knowing the truth,
which in this case is to be subject to the ridicule and contempt of the herd
mentality for not conforming to its religious fanaticism, all in the name of
patriotism and pride. So much for "freedom".
Let's dissect these
myths and see how they match up to facts, commmon sense and real life
experiences:
1) “
We will get into
freedom later, but for now, let's address the democracy issue. Technically, a democracy is defined as a
"rule by the majority".
Hollywood, the media and our education system all chant that America is
the epitome of democracy as though it were a Gospel Truth that is universally
agreed upon (but it is not by far). It is so ingrained in our culture that most
never dare to question it.
The founding fathers
never intended
A Republic is
"rule by law" and tends to be the most just and stable form of
government, protecting the rights of its citizens while limiting the power of
government to a minimal level. Here are some great videos that explain the
difference between a Republic and a Democracy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFXuGIpsdE0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2kAV4-bskY
The first video above
contains quotes from the founding fathers expressing their thoughts on democracy,
which you will see was anything but positive.
In fact, there is no
mention of the word "democracy" in the Declaration of Independence or
the Constitution. Even the Pledge of Allegiance cited by school children
mentions that
"I pledge
allegiance to the flag of the
The founding fathers
were intellectual elites who knew their history. They knew that a democracy was
unsustainable, for it was in essence a rule by a lawless mob. The
fundamental flaw in a democracy is that the majority is unrestrained.
Critics of democracy
use this revealing analogy:
"Democracy is like three wolves and one sheep voting on what's for
dinner." In other words, if 51 percent of the population voted to harm or
seize the property of the other 49 percent, who's going to protect the 49
percent? This reveals the inherent flaw in democracy, which
In fact, the US
Constitution and Bill of Rights were designed to PROTECT you FROM a democracy!
(Most Americans would flip if they heard that) For example, in a true
democracy, or a "rule by majority", if most people in your town voted
to seize your property and hang you, your assets would be confiscated and you'd
be hanged. Simple as that. But in a Republic with a Constitution of rights,
your rights and property are protected by law. If you are accused of anything,
you have the right to a fair trial. That's how a Republic works. And that's how
it PROTECTS you from a true democracy.
The ancient Greeks
tried having a true democracy, but it failed, led to chaos and eventually to
oligarchy. Even
the greatest Greek philosopher, Socrates, did not believe in a true democracy.
He advocated that the wisest and most virtuous rule society, not the common
populace. In Plato's great work "The Republic", Socrates likened a
"democracy" to the crew of a ship committing mutiny against their
captain and taking the helm. In such a scenario, the ship, run by "the
mob", would never be run efficiently nor get to its proper destination, as
the mutineers would constantly bicker, quarrel and change their minds. There
would be no order. The ship would be blown around by the wind, so to speak.
So why doesn't a true
democracy work, you might ask? Well you see, most people are followers, not
leaders or thinkers. They are emotional, not logical or rational. Being
gullible, they are changeable on a whim, quick to jump to conclusions, and not
wise. A true democracy is like having a mob take control (as in Socrates'
example above) without laws or protection. It is neither efficient, stable nor
sustainable. And besides, there is no logical reason to presuppose that the
majority is always right either. As the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius said,
"The object in life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to
escape finding onself in the ranks of the insane."
Though on paper,
This eloquent clip from
the 1976 film Network hits the nail on the head about why
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzSj1yNZdY8
Nevertheless, there are
some who will try to argue that
In addition, consider
the following:
a) According to polls,
most Americans do not feel that they have a say in their government or its
policies, and do not feel that their vote even matters. (Hence voter turnout
during elections tends to be under 50 percent) There is a good reason for that.
The government and the elite who run it often act in contrary to the will of
the people.
For example, most
Americans did not want the Vietnam War or the Iraq War, yet the
So, if a democracy is a
"rule by majority" then how come most people have no say in the
country's policy making, either foreign or domestic? That says a lot, yet most
Americans still believe the democracy myth. (Fortunately though, with the surge
in the conspiracy movement and the internet, more Americans are beginning to
wake up everyday)
b) According to the
historical track record, no matter who holds the office of President, whether
Democrat or Republican, Conservative or
Therefore, people don't
really have a say in the policies their government sets. They are simply given
the chance to elect Presidents every four years, and Congressmen and Senators
every few years, as an illusion of some control in the democratic process. In
reality though, no matter who gets elected, the power networks (corporate
giants, banking elite, military industrial complex, secret societies, etc.)
make sure they are in control. They are the real masters, not the President of
the
Why do you think that
US Presidents tend to reneg on their campaign promises that won them the
election? Do you think any man likes going back on his word and breaking his
promises in front of the whole country's population? I don't think so. It's
obviously because he has no choice, since he's not really at the top of the
hierarchy and cannot do whatever he wants. He is controlled by a "shadow
network", where his real allegiance lies. Otherwise he wouldn't be in
office, or he better submit to them if he wants to remain in office, lest he
suffer the consequences (as JFK, our last real President, did, which was a
warning to all that followed).
The elite merely need
to present the illusion of democracy to appease the masses. And they do it by
giving you the charade of political elections, and calling it
"democracy". All they have to do is control the tiny pool of
candidates that you have to choose from, in one form or another, and they
remain in power, NOT you. That is why no matter who is elected, policies
(including covert ones) remain the same.
Of course, the elite
themselves don't believe in a democracy either, for a true democracy would
usurp their power. Therefore, they are knowingly spreading myths that they
don't believe themselves, which is both hypocritical and deceitful.
c) Immigrants and
foreigners from other countries do not usually say "Wow we have so much
freedom and democracy in
Furthermore, it is not
true that most people in the rest of the world want to live in
http://www.littleindia.com/august2004/UnhappyinAmerica.htm
Also see these
revealing thoughts and feelings of immigrants in the
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page32.htm
Of course,
And that brings us to
the next myth...
2) “
This one really takes the cake. Even as a school kid, I always thought it was
odd that we were constantly told that "America is the freest country on
Earth" yet I was forced to go to school, do homework everyday, and would
get a "detention slip" if I wasn't in class when the bell rang. My
everyday life did not seem "free" at all, yet I was constantly told
that it was, as though it were a religion.
The problem is that this fanatical claim is
very vague, not specific at all, and not supported by anything except the
What’s especially revealing is that no one who is
really well traveled believes that
Now, if
“As a person of intelligence doesn't need to tell others he is
intelligent, a truly free society doesn't need to be told it is free.”
In fact,
For some reason,
Hollywood and the US media perpetuate this bizarre stereotypical image that ALL
countries outside the US are living under facist regimes governed by martial
law, with soldiers and machine guns pointed at everyone, keeping them in
terror, and that America is the only country free from all that. This is
totally bogus and laughable, yet many Americans seriously believe it, sadly enough.
The reality is that
most countries do NOT live under fascist dictatorships. Yet
American culture, media
and movies insinuate all the time that all foreign countries are under
oppressive fascist regimes, while
For instance, in the
1985 film Invasion USA starring Chuck Norris, an army of terrorists
break into
Now let's dissect the
concept of
What does
In reality, in most
countries, is that as long as you have money for transportation and
accommodation, and you don't break any laws, you are "free" to go
wherever you want on public lands, visit any attractions you like, eat, drink
and be merry. So how is that any
different in
In fact, arguably,
since
(You might also be
surprised to know that no one I’ve met who’s been to the
Here are some examples
from eloquent expat letters. As you can see, they definitely feel freer and
happier in other countries. (So much for
http://www.happierabroad.com/Great_Letters.htm
In addition, many
countries have freedoms not possible in
In
See this comparison
chart for many revealing examples of freedoms, pleasures and benefits overseas
you can't get in
http://www.happierabroad.com/comparison.htm
And see this list of
freedoms you don’t get in
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=6867
Jeremy Rifkin, author
of The European Dream, sums up the difference between the idea of
"freedom" in
(Pages 13
– 14)
"The
American and European dreams are, at their core, about two diametrically
opposed ideas of freedom and security. Americans hold a negative
definition of what it means to be free and, thus, secure. For us, freedom
has long been associated with autonomy. If one is autonomous, he or she
is not dependent on others or vulnerable to circumstances outside of his or her
control. To be autonomous, one needs to be propertied. The more
wealth one amasses, the more independent one is in the world. One is free
by becoming self-reliant and an island unto oneself. With wealth comes
exclusivity, and with exclusivity comes security.
The new
European Dream, however, is based on a different set of assumptions about what
constitutes freedom and security. [b]For Europeans, freedom is not found
in autonomy but in embeddedness. To be free is to have access to a myriad
of interdependent relationships with others.[/b] The more communities one
has access to, the more options and choices one has for living a full and
meaningful life. With relationships comes inclusivity, and with inclusivity
comes security."
The popular phrase by
ignorant Americans, "It's a free country" is often used to justify
doing whatever they want. Yet it's one of the stupidest statements ever. When I
was in junior high, kids who picked on me or bullied me would use the
"It's a free country" excuse to do whatever they wanted to me. It was
totally moronic. There is no "free country" that lets the common
person do whatever they want, especially to others. Every country has many
laws, rules and regulations. It appalls me how easily brainwashed people are.
So what exactly are you
"free" to do in
You are free to work and
make more money than you can in most countries, yeah, but the high cost of
living offsets that. In fact, Americans are more in debt than those in any
other country, and most Americans live paycheck to paycheck and are one
paycheck away from being broke. Most do not own their own homes, but have
mortgaged it, making themselves slaves to the bank. Is that freedom?
You have individual
rights under the Constitution, yeah, but in most countries, especially
Americans like to boast
that they have freedom of speech and that they can speak out against their own
government and leaders legally, without getting arrested, whereas in all other countries,
doing so will get you arrested or shot. But again, this is misleading. While it
is true that you are legally allowed to speak out against the government in
The same applies in
So essentially, it's
the same thing. The only difference is that citizens of other nations can see
the state of their freedom the way it really is, whereas Americans are under
the delusion that they have a special status as "the freest nation on
Earth".
Sure, there are some
countries like communist China or North Vietnam where dissidence is not
tolerated and leads to incarceration, but these are extreme examples, and do
NOT apply to most of the 200+ countries in the world. Besides, it is misleading
to compare only with the worst examples out there, as the
Either way, being able
to legally speak out against the government does not make
In reality, most of us
conform to schedules and routines set by others, and submit to authority of
some kind. As children we conform to school and submit to its authority,
schedules, rules and workload. As adults, we submit to the same in the
corporations that employ us. Most are not "free" to wake up and do
whatever they want, especially not in an expensive workaholic country like
Since we are all under
someone else's control for the most part, in one way or another, there is no
"true freedom". Most of the world realizes this. It's Americans that
do not, instead living under the delusion that they are a free country and a
free people, and that the rest of the world envies them and wishes they could
immigrate there to attain "freedom", despite evidence to the
contrary.
So why then, do
Americans believe this myth about their exclusivity to freedom when it has no
basis in reality and makes no sense? Well I can only surmise that:
a) Most people are
followers, not leaders, visionaries or independent thinkers. They are unable to
think for themselves, and believe whatever they are told by establishment and
authority. They conform to what they've been programmed and brainwashed with,
and do not resist it. Even if their indoctrinations conflict with their
everyday experiences and feelings, they will still hold to it, even if it's
self-contradictory or doesn't add up.
b) Since
Ironically, though you
are expected to be independent and autonomous in
c) The elite have a
vested interest in promoting this illusion. It instills pride in the
population, dumbs them down, keeps them ignorant about the rest of the world,
and gets them to comply with US foreign policy, including military aggression
overseas (tragically) and hostile takeover of foreign lands, under the guise of
freedom and democracy.
This is especially the
case if you are in the armed forces, in which case you need to be fully
indoctrinated into believing that you are fighting for freedom and democracy,
in order to instill absolutely loyalty in you, even if in reality you are on
the side of evil engaging in an act of military aggression and hostile takeover
for profit and power, bombing innnocent civilians in the process. Otherwise you
wouldn't follow orders to fight, risk your life or kill others if you knew the
truth.
3) "In
In other words,
"you have freedom of speech as long as you believe what you are told and
don't question it."
This of course is
ultimate hypocrisy and a direct contradiction that
But then again,
It’s a tricky form of
mind control where you are deceived into thinking that you are free, when in
reality you are mind controlled. The great intellectual American critic, Noam
Chomsky, explained in his film Manufacturing Consent that since
4) “
You might think that
brainwashing its citizens with myths about freedom and democracy is a harmless
act that merely keeps the sheeple dumb and passive. But it goes beyond
that. These myths also serve the
function of garnering public compliance when
So, it is your duty to
support all US sponsored wars even if it is in the wrong or are "the bad
guys" in the conflict. Anyone who doesn't is condemned as "unpatriotic"
or a heretic. Even celebrities and public officials are afraid to speak out
against the Iraq War for fear of jeopardizing their position and careers. (so
much for free speech)
In essence, what
In doing so,
The elite understand
that they must hide their motives for getting involved in wars all the time. If
the public was told the truth, that
This is especially the
case for those serving in the armed forces. If you watch documentaries about
the life of
The 2009 blockbuster
film Avatar accurately portrays the motives of
Similarly, the 1990
film Dances with Wolves starring Kevin Costner depicted the same
accuracy in its portrayal of the conquest of the American frontier. When Dunbar
(Costner) bonds with the Sioux tribe and begins to understand them and become
one of them, the US Cavalry is revealed for what they really are, instruments
of aggression and plunder who steal lands from Native Americans and commit
atrocities against the innocent to achieve such ends. When the viewer
understands this, he/she naturally sides with the plight of the Sioux tribe. So
when
I applaud such films
for their accurate portrayal of the motives of the
Conclusion:
So you see,
What we can conclude
then, based on all the above, is that "freedom" and "government
by the people" are illusions. They
don't need to actually exist. The public
merely needs to be given the illusion of freedom and democracy.
But unfortunately for
In short,
But alas, people do not
like to change their ways, especially if they are at the top of the pyramid, in
which case they have a vested self-interest in maintaining the status quo.
The
It's a pity that
America doesn't see the wisdom of one of its own children's parables known as The
Boy Who Cried Wolf, which teaches that consequences of lying is the
destruction of one's own credibility and mistrust from others. If
The game of
But alas, they are
playing a losing game and are losing their grip. God only knows what they will resort to
next. Those in power do not give it up
easily, and will not go down without a vicious fight. Let's hope that whatever changes, revolutions
or global awakenings that are coming next will occur through a peaceful
transformation.
I also pray that the
public becomes informed, enlightened, intellectual and wise, so that history
does not repeat itself (as it usually has in the past). As someone once said,
"Those who do not learn history are condemned to repeat it." Hopefully, the free flowing of information on
the internet will help make that possible.
Until then, if you
would like to learn about how you can enjoy more freedoms and benefits abroad,
and are ready to venture beyond the US Matrix to see the real world, come visit
my website at http://www.HappierAbroad.com
Thanks for reading.
Sincerely,
Winston Wu
PS - If you wish to
start down the path of becoming a freethinking intellectual, as we have, let me
warn you first though, that it comes with consequences as well as benefits.
(Though it may not be a conscious choice on your part, but rather a realization
of what you already are) By becoming one, you will certainly have a richer
inner life that others don't have, and you will be able to see and know things
at a depth and level that common people can't. You will also attain the freedom
to rise above the programming and conditioning of society, which the common
person didn't even know existed. You will be able to see things the way they
really are, rather than how you were programmed to.
However, you will find
it hard to fit into social groups and circles, for deep down an intellectual
does not like to "conform" to something, for conformity is the
antithesis of freethought. Also, you will find yourself looking down on common
people, who are usually conformists and follow the pack, as ignorant sheeple
do, so you will not really feel like you belong or fit in with them. To you,
common people will seem like zombies. Thus it will be hard for you to remain
modest, as pride and snobbiness may become part of your disposition.
You may find yourself
often estranged from others, engaging them merely for superficial greetings or
socializing. This means that you will find few people in life who can truly
relate to you. Even the ignorant can sense vibes on an instinctual level, and
they will sense that you are somehow “different” than them, vibrating at a
different frequency. However, since like attracts like, you will certainly find
others like you from time to time, through circumstances and coincidences. But
you will not be connecting with the majority.
In addition, being able
to see things that others can't and know things that others don't, you will
find yourself annoyed at flaws and discrepancies that others don't get hung up
on. Sometimes "ignorance is bliss" after all. Others may perceive you
as "anal retentive" for noticing imperfections that don't matter to
them.
An expat friend of
mine, also a freethinker, had this to say on my Forum about the life of a
freethinking intellectual:
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=6680&start=10
“Why would
the government want to properly educate the masses? They would lose their power
in government cause then the average person would be able to see all their lies
and fallacies. They realize a small percentage will break out of their matrix
and they will either be ostracized from main society or they will be brought
into the circle of power as one of their own.
To be able
to break away from either of those labels takes a strong sense of purpose and
some kind of divine intervention that was agreed upon before birth and
intertwined into ones life. There are always people like this that break the
mold, but society generally doesn't realize their greatness until they have
departed the Earth plane. Individuals that are well ahead of whatever is going
on in society are the ones that keep society moving forward, but are often
ridiculed in the process of trying to make others see the light. Most people do
not have the capability to visualize what the future will bring, or they do it
wrong cause they interpret the future using their current preconceived notions
of reality.
A true
visionary sets themselves apart from the mainstream and isn't offended by brash
comments upon their person.”
That being said, if you
seek to find an intellectual majority or population, your best chance, in my
experience, would be in
Discuss this article in this forum thread: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=6881
See also:
Propaganda vs. Real Life
in America
The Industrial Culture of
America and Automaton Populace
The Big Lie: Why America is all about
Control and Conformity, not Truth or Freedom
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