HAPPIER
ABROAD Why Dating, Social Life and Mental Health are Better Beyond America
6
Major advantages of European/Russian women over American women
As someone who has approached and met many women in
Russia/Europe and America,
I can guarantee 1000 percent that the following six major advantages outlined here
are absolutely true and testable. My
website at www.happieraroad.com
contains a hundred times more than enough proof of this. Please note that though I acknowledge that
while certain qualities vary universally among individuals (e.g. personality,
character, behavior, morality, taste), there are nevertheless big differences
that do exist between countries/regions which are apparent to even the most
casual observer. (If at any time while
reading this, you wish to accuse me of stereotyping or generalizing, or you
wish to protest that you know exceptions to what I describe, please click here)
1.
Approachability/Sociability – In general,
women in Russia and
Europe are a million times more approachable, inclusive, modest, and easy to
meet, date, and bring into your social/dating circle than women in America. This I can guarantee a thousand percent a
thousand times over. In fact, the
difference in approachability is greater than the average American who’s never
left their country can imagine. Even if
you approach a female movie star, model, or married woman in Russia, she never
gets offended or defensive at your initiation like American women do, so you
never feel like you are a creep or for the attempt, for in such countries men
are allowed to “act on their desires” much more freely than in the states. Usually, they blush or giggle when approached
or flirted with.
In contrast, trying to meet and approach young women
in the US
often feels awkward and rude, as if you are violating some type of
boundary. They prefer not to acknowledge
your existence if you’re not in their clique.
They have strong hang ups against strangers (even if they find them
attractive) and behave overly proper and distant in their communication with
them. They generally don’t talk to
strangers unless it’s business related, for they are religious about keeping
social interactions strictly within their clique. They are among the most cliquish, closed, and
anti-stranger women in the world, and emanate an “unapproachable force field”
around them. Not
to say that there are no friendly women in America, but there is
definitely something peculiar that makes them and Americans in general
unnaturally closed and paranoid. So
the main problem is that they won’t meet you if they don’t know you, but yet
you can’t get to know them cause they won’t meet you, thus creating a CLOSED
LOOP against someone who wants to meet them.
And that just plain sucks, to put it simply.
In fact, it’s widely agreed among well-traveled
playboys that the US
has among the most unapproachable and anti-social women in the world. Even in other Westernized countries like
Canada, England, France or Italy, where young women are also known to be
snobby, at least they are still far more approachable and social than in the US
(and much more cultured as well). The
material on my site proves without a doubt a hundred times over that young
women in the US
are among the most unapproachable in the world.
Even their closest counterparts in Britain aren’t nearly as
unapproachable, but have better conversation skills, and are generally
friendlier.
In America, women have all the power
and upperhand, and they know it. Around American women, men MUST act
girly and emasculate, otherwise they are seen as creeps, pigs, or
transgressors. And they will be viewed likewise if they don't always let
women continue to have the power and upperhand as well. That's one reason why they're unapproachable,
for to them, being approached or “hit on” is a threat to their power and
upperhand. And for me, that puts me between “a rock and a hard place”,
because if I approach American girls I want and “go for it” then I am a creep
or , but if I don’t, then they never approach me either, so either way I lose.
2. Weight – I hate to say something so politically incorrect
and offensive, but the following is absolutely true. In Russia and Europe, between 95 and 100 percent of the young
women are skinny or height/weight proportionate. In contrast, in the USA
between 40 and 60 percent of the women are overweight, varying among
region. This is absolutely indisputable,
apparent, objectively measurable, and not subject to relative opinion or
standards at all, as it has to do with obvious physical differences apparent to
the naked eye that even the biggest idiot in the world who goes to both regions
could identify immediately without effort.
What sucks about America, despite its many
ideal qualities, is that the only truly friendly open women are the large ones,
while the non-overweight ones are generally stuck-up and unapproachable (though
in many areas, such as LA, even ugly girls are rude and uppity). On the other hand, most of the slim young
women in Russia/Europe are very approachable and easy to meet or get acquainted
with.
3. Dress
style – The dress style of European
and Russian women is much more stylish, attractive, classy, and feminine than
in America, where women dress much more plainly in comparison (since after all,
even average plain women in the US have their pick of the bunch, thus they have
no need to look top-notch).
Russian/European women are much better at maximizing their appearance
with clothes/cosmetics and unlike American women, they love wearing skirts and
high heels, which are much more attractive to men. As in the weight element above, this
difference too is so apparent everywhere you go in these regions that even the
biggest idiot in the world couldn’t help but notice it. In fact, I and other Americans I’ve met would
say that in Russia, about 80 percent of girls are considered “hot” by American
standards, while in the USA, that proportion is, well, much lower so that any
decent looking girl there is treated like a goddess and put on a pedestal. What is considered “hot” by American
standards is average in Russia. If you don’t believe it, come spend time in
the crowded cities of Moscow
and St. Petersburg,
and you’ll see exactly what we mean.
4.
Intellectual/Inner life – Compared to
the US,
women in Russia/Europe have a much richer and refined intellectual life, are
more cultured, higher educated, have a broader knowledge of the world, and
speak many more languages (most of them speak between 2 and 5 languages while
most American women speak only their own).
Unlike # 2 and 3 though, this one requires interaction with the women in
these regions to notice. In contrast, not only do most young women in the US
not value having an intellectual life, but they lack curiosity as well, and
can’t even hold an intelligent conversation.
Often trying to hold even a normal conversation with them is like
talking to a dead wall. While a higher
percentage of older women in the US
can hold somewhat of an
intelligent conversation, the typical young American female lacks depth
and
can’t say much beyond “yeah”,
“really”, and “cool”, which is
sad but true. This makes it difficult to connect with them
or find common ground with them, as there is not much substance to them to work
with. In fact, I’d say the tremendous
difference between the ability of young women to hold a conversation in the US vs
abroad is almost as apparent as the weight difference. One thing can be said for sure though, in pretty
much all countries outside the USA,
women are either more cultured or more modest, one or the other, or both.
5. Variety
of interests – Based on # 4, it’s no
surprise that Russian/European women also generally have much more variety in
their interests and passions, which makes them much more interesting people as
well. They have a love for exploring new
things, expressing and expanding themselves, and maximizing their experiences
and passions in life. Again, the
slightest interaction with them reveals this obvious difference compared to
their US
counterparts. European and Russian women
who visit America
often report that one of their first impressions is that the women there have no
real interests (compared to them at least; by their standards).
6.
Femininity – Last but not least, the
mentality and culture of “feminism” that has taken over America has made it the
most unfeminine place in the world. What
American feminists (men as well as women) don’t realize is that most of the
rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in
fact despise it, finding it unnatural, distasteful, and UNfeminine
(ironically). American feminism is rife
with hypocrisy, double-standards, and dysfunctionality; yet it pervades all our
modern culture, media, talk shows, sitcoms, etc., portraying women as either
perpetual victims who can do no wrong, or as creatures with superior rights to
men. (There are great websites that get into this in great detail, as it’s
beyond the scope of this summary) What
this has done to the personality and behavior of women here is monstrous. Besides dress style (e.g. very few wear
skirts and high heels now), their voices become coarse and rough, their
mannerisms masculine, and their characters spoiled and selfish. Unlike women in the rest of the world, they
aren’t soft, tender, sweet, don’t giggle when you say nice compliments, and
don’t like wearing skirts and heels.
Women in the rest of the world, on the other hand, are proud of their
femininity, and show it in many ways, in dress style, behavior, and attitude.
Conclusion: The above six
factors outlined should make the sharp contrast and overall differences clear between
Russian/European women and American women.
While I do not wish to focus on appearance or dress style (the world is
shallow enough as it is), my primary complaints and beef against American women
are that they are 1) unapproachable, anti-social, and cliquish toward
strangers, and 2) lack depth, substance, and culture, making it difficult to
connect with them, find common ground or chemistry. If it weren’t for these, America would be a much
better place. Though what I’ve said here
may offend some, it’s the truth nevertheless.
And if one isn’t allowed to say the truth here, we live in a screwed-up
place.
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