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HAPPIER
ABROAD Why
You Will Have A Better Love and Life Beyond
My
perpetual ecstasy in the
Here is a
raving update I wrote to my mailing list in
October 2006 about my ecstasy in the Philippines:
Dear all,
As of June
2006, I finally left
Then, in
October, I flew to
Here, my
social/dating life has been a TRILLION TIMES
better than it was in
Everyday,
every moment, often I am thinking in the
back of my mind, “If only the folks back home could see what
I’m experiencing
here, they’d be amazed, dumbfounded and converted for
sure!!!!!!!” Nowhere on earth have I
seen so many hot
girls 24/7 on the streets here, who mirror back all my flirtations,
kisses,
seductions, etc. They are so wild! I thought that such was only possible in
dreams, but here it happens anytime, 24/7!!!!!!!!
All my
needs and desires are fulfilled here, to the
point where I hardly even use the internet anymore, since the need for
escapism
through the internet due to lack of social life no longer exists here.
The girls
here have this way of making you feel like a
million bucks, and appreciated like a real man, that is hard to
explain, but
something you have to experience to understand.
It’s something that is of course, nonexistent back in the
states. To me, I would say that for a man,
you
haven’t really lived until you’ve experienced the attitude
and vibe of the
females here toward you.
Every
newcomer here is stunned, thinking “Where have I
been? Why didn’t I come here
before?!” I toured a couple of
visitors
and guests around and enjoyed seeing their reactions to it all, as if
they’ve
become “enlightened” to how it all should be!
Wow. The experiences
here are so fulfilling, every moment, that they’ve practically
ERASED the all
the years of negative baggage I had from the states of feeling like a
perpetual
misfit, lack of social life/popularity, and the daily nightmare of
trying to
get a date! It’s like all those
years
and decades of that have been wiped clean from my memory, emotions, and
psyche! An ABSOLUTE MIRACLE!!!!!!!
Man, I
just don’t know how else to describe it. But
I’m doing my best. I’d say
that the difference between the health,
quality, and excitement of my social/love life here and in the states,
is not
just multiple times bigger, but ASTRONOMICAL in comparison! In fact, the difference is as great as the
difference between the size of the Earth and the size of the Sun! A difference bigger than you can imagine!
Sure there
are a lot of quirks, oddities, and
inconveniences here that annoy me a lot, but all of the above more than
makes
up for it.
Another
thing I can’t believe, which I’ve hear all the
time, is that my facial features, which are considered nerdy and
unattractive
in American culture, are actually considered attractive in Filipino
culture! For example, countless times on
a regular basis, I’ve gotten compliments on my slanty eyes, which
I never
thought were attractive in any culture (since kids used to make fun of
them
back in school, using racial slurs and innuendo). But
here, they are different from the norm,
since Filipino eyes are big and round (which are considered more
attractive in
Western culture, and to my taste too) and somehow, most Filipinas like
them and
compliment them. Some have even gone
crazy over my eyes and say they are obsessed with and in love with
them,
especially when I gaze at them!
Amazing. I also get a lot of
compliments on my lips, which I always thought made my mouth too small
and
feminine. Man I am just so appreciated
here in ways that I never thought possible!!!!!!!
I gotta
tell you though, that even if you’re a guy
(White or Asian) who generally isn’t into Asian women, if you
come here and let
me show you around, and experience what I have, you will ACQUIRE a
taste for
Filipinas! GUARANTEED!
They are just too good not to. And
let me tell you, the Americanized
Filipinas in the states aren’t as attractive and don’t
represent what you find
here, for sure.
What I
can’t get enough of is that smooth silky
chocolaty dark skin that most Filipinas have here.
It’s so hot and sexy, and I have a huge
fetish for it. I just can’t get
enough
of it, even if I rub and massage it all day and night.
Oooooohhhh.
The girls here are amused by my fetish for it.
The girls
here are so playful and easily amused, that
anything I do that’s corny or out of the ordinary makes them go
wild and makes
their day. Heck, I’ve even danced on
the
stage here at the go go bars many times, cause when they see that
I’m in the
dancing mood, they invite me up there.
And that’s something I usually would never do. But with so much wild enthusiasm and cheers
from all the girls here, it just brings it out in me.
Incredible.
I never pictured myself doing such things. I
feed on their enthusiasm toward me, which
is constant and perpetual. Since they
have Latina blood, they are always in the mood to party, always ready
to get
wild/passionate, and always have this sensual playful smirk on their
face
waiting to be activated at any time, and believe me, I can activate it,
since
I’m the same way as they are, a combination of Asian
gentleness/tenderness
coupled with a wild/passionate side.
That’s what makes me and Filipinas such a great natural
match. We are so similar and have a lot of
synergy
together.
Everyday I
wonder “Why didn’t I come here sooner?!”
for every moment here is one of sheer ecstasy and bliss, like a
perpetual
everlasting orgasm…….
PS - Here
are some eloquent and insightful quotes that
were sent periodically to my cell phone by my Expat Advisor who
is an expert on Filipino culture and speaks ten
languages including two Filipino dialects (abbreviations spelled out):
-
“Happy New Year to you too.
I
hear about the US and anyway, now you are far away from it and you can
see that
when they say that people are all the same, they have not traveled
enough.
Just
keep in mind that the
This
is my concept of "quilting your world" from many different countries
each one providing you with what it does best. Just as long as you do
not make
demands on stones and turnips to give blood, and instead go to blood
banks, you
will be OK. You asked
L.”
- "Your experiences in this
miraculous
nation of redemption will need to be high in intensity so that they
would be
equivalent in value to decades of neglect back home.
The new memories will, in due time neutralize
the bad ones; and the bad ones, if they remain, will only serve as
stern
reminders of where not to be and what not to expect."
- "..... yes the
- "The Philippine society
puts
primary emphasis on family, human relations and the development
thereof- which
includes sex, friendship, love, etc.
Socially, it seems to be one of the most advanced societies on
earth. Of course, these developments are
not
mentioned in the western press which only measures progress in
political,
technological and financial areas. If it
started measuring societies by the healthfulness of social life, the
place you
are at would win hands down.
Cheerz."
- "Do keep in mind that
while we
enjoy ourselves in the Philippines, there are oodles of lonely
Asian-American
men jacking off in the toilet with no hope in sight. It is all right
for us to
be hedonists, and to live abundant romantic lives, but we need to keep
in mind
other guys who are still encased in the lonely social prison in
America. Our
spirit is that of altruism and leading others and liberating them, too.
There
are huddled Asian American masses in the US yearning to breathe free as
you are
now. Do not forget them. Spread your message to them, but keep info.
decent and
not raunchy- confine it to romance and social life. Maybe you can start
posting
on various Asian American message boards or newsgroups. Many Asian
American
guys need it. There is a lot of frustration and hatred in the Asian
American
community. By establishing a rapport between them and the friendly
Filipino
people you will be helping both groups.
It will help to bring more investors into the country as many
Asian
American men are seen as good people there and who will become good and
responsible residents helping the economy and improving the
international ties
between the US and the Philippines."
- “Have you noticed
another thing? In
bars in the US you have 40 sweaty, yelling working men and maybe two
ugly girls
on stage and you can’t even touch them- you will be bounced out.
And it’s
supposed to be “The Land of The Free”. In the Philippines-
2-3 ugly old guys in
the bar and 40 sweaty working girls and there is no jealousy among the
guys for
bar girls. Now you know where the land of the free is.”
- “Winston, got your
email. Advice:
every country you go to will have great benefits and gross and awkward
inconveniences. You alone may try to change them but you won’t
succeed- they
take centuries to change. Better adapt to work within the systems that
they
have and try to see benefits in their inconveniences, as well. Try to
be a bit
more opportunistic- see opportunities where others see problems. Do not
look
for water in deserts- e.g. efficiency in the Philippines, friendliness
in the
US, but combine several countries- that is PT (Perpetual Traveler) way.
Stop
asking why things are the way they are. Why is the sun hot? Why is
there a
radiation belt outside the Earth? They just ARE. Ask “how can I
deal with the
situation and see the benefit in it?” Do not complain to the
natives- they may
not understand.”
- “As you have
observed in Russia, it
was the opposite of the US, in that it was skewed in a different
direction but
still unbalanced. The Philippines is again unbalanced and is again an
opposite
of the US. Its social system is based on love, romance, family and
friendship.
In that respect, they have one of the most socially advanced societies
on
Earth. Many people have called it the best place in the world. But they
are not
advanced in practicalities and have not developed an organization/logic
in
practical things. But you can train them in that. On the other hand, it
is very
hard to train people in the US in the art of being friendly, respectful
and
loving. The US is a place where assholism in human relationships rules
supreme
and selfishness is not even contested. So, that brings us again to the
realization that one never, ever can have it all in one country- it
seems that the
world is simply not designed that way and that every country is
inherently and
grossly incomplete.”
(Comment:
‘assholism’ in human relationships- I love that, so true!)
- “Do you
remember these pop song
lyrics: "If I fail, if I succeed,
at least I'll live like I believe......." also "I did it my
way....." and ".... then the hero comes along, with the strength to
carry on....." All the above things
represent the American spirit of individual achievement and,
ironically, you
are using it, and following it while looking for collectivist cultures. In other words, you are looking for the
balance between the two and, possibly, finding it.”
-
"One thing about the Philippines is that if you are a foreign, people
will
always want to befriend you. Thus, you
will never be without friends there.
That is guaranteed. Different
countries guarantee different things.
America guarantees political and religious freedom.
Italy guarantees employment for artists. Saudi
Arabia guarantees Islam. And the
Philippines guarantees friends."
(Comment:
I would definitely add above that the
-
“One more thing about Philippines- if you’re a comedian
type with a sense of
humour, a joker and a clown, Filipino people love you for that. If you
are a
live wire and talk a lot, they also like that. The more you talk, the
more they
like you. They will sit and listen to you for hours. Not so with their
neighboring countries. To them, a man should be a sullen, formal,
morose,
discreet and tense robot to be respected. Neither a comedian, nor a
chatterbox
(like me) gets any respect, least so from women.”
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