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HAPPIER
ABROAD
Why
You Will Have A Better Love and Life Beyond
What
Lately,
there has been a lot
of talk in the alternative press
and internet about
There may be a some truth in that, but what isn’t commonly
mentioned is that
there are other big weaknesses,
disadvantages, and negative aspects in
Thus, these anti-government protestors make it out to be as though
without the
tyranny of the government
and
corporate elite,
When problems in America are discussed publicly or in the corporate
controlled media,
it’s mostly always about economic
problems,
jobs and crimes, but hardly ever about the social life, dating scene or
mental
health of people, which are just as important if not more. After all, quality of life
in terms of social,
romantic and psychological areas, are important and affect
one’s mental health,
relationships, happiness, and reason for living.
So anyhow, here are the real life disadvantages, problems, and
weaknesses in
So, here in plain truth is what
What America is good for:
- Finding a job / Making
money
- Religious freedom
- Privacy / Being left
alone
- Quality / Efficiency /
Customer service
What America is NOT good
for:
- Dating women (love,
romance, sex for men)
- Inclusive social scene /
Connectedness
- Mental health /
Psychological well being
Description of each of the above:
Advantages and Strengths:
Finding a job/ Making money
– Finding work, if you’re serious and
persistent, is relatively easy in America, as long as you play by the
rules. It
may not be your ideal position, but you can
find a job
that pays, if your standards aren’t too high. And the
pay rate for any position, even at minimum wage, is relatively high
compared to
most of the world. And if you are a workaholic, you will fit into the
corporate
culture just fine and be rewarded for your conformity, performance and
work
ethic.
Religious freedom
– In America, you can practice almost any religion you
want, as long as you don’t harm other people or infringe upon
others’ rights,
or do anything illegal as part of your religious practice.
Privacy / Being left alone
– If you like being alone, not bothered, and
having your own space isolated in your own home,
Quality / Efficiency / Customer
service – Compared to
developing
countries of the 2nd and 3rd world, American products, services and
infrastructure
are first rate and high quality. Generally things run efficiently in
both the
private and public sector. Competition and the workaholic lifestyle
help make
this so. There is constant pressure and strive for efficiency, and
things are
well defined, specific and structured logically. Communication is
literal and
articulate to minimize misunderstandings too. Generally, things are run
and maintained
with rigid quality control standards and laws.
In addition, customer service in the corporate and business sector is
superb,
speedy, and quality controlled (in most cases at least, compared to the
rest of
the world). The motto that “the customer is always
right” makes America very
pro-consumer.America is also one of the few countries , even among
industrialized nations, where you can get a full cash refund in retail
stores for
something you bought within a few weeks, whereas in othercountries you
are only
allowed to exchange your product if it was defective.
Disadvantages and
Weaknesses:
Dating women (love, romance,
sex for men) –
Let’s face it, America has
just about one of the ALL-TIME WORST dating scenes for men, if not THE
WORST.
It is a nightmarish hell of epic proportions and the whole process for
men is
one of the most frustrating and unnatural things in the world. See my
essay about
it here: https://www.happierabroad.com/introduction.php
So if you are a guy who enjoys being involved with beautiful women,
hanging
with them, dating them and making love to them (getting laid so to
speak), you
may find America to be one of the most frustrated, prudish and frigid
places
where you cannot unleash or express your desires, especially if you are
just an
average nice guy.
There are just SO MANY things and factors going against you in this
area that
make it extremely difficult or impossible, no matter what you do or how
you act
and project yourself. And this is the case even if you are good looking
or
wealthy.
But of course, all of this is taboo and forbidden to discuss publicly,
because
there is an unspoken Gospel Law in
Nevertheless, the horrible lopsided dating scene for men in
- Women have become stuck up and paranoid, living in fear of
male strangers,
thinking that there are many psychos out there. All this is reinforced
by the
culture and media.
- Women are taught not to need men, but to look down on them
and be independent
instead. And in fact, many women on their day off prefer to be alone,
walk
their dog or visit a girlfriend rather than spend time with a man on a
date.
Any man who complains about this is considered “weak, needy
or desperate”, thus
the blame is shifted onto him.
- Women are not feminine anymore and in fact are conditioned
to detest
femininity. They neither act feminine nor dress feminine. This is a big
turn
off to most men, but most are afraid to complain about it because to do
so
would be taboo and politically incorrect. Also, they do not blush or
giggle and
are not moved by flattery.
- Women are very picky and hard to get. They have a sense of
entitlement off
the charts, and have a way of undermining men’s confidence
and pussy-fying
them. Getting a girlfriend or getting laid in
- More or less, something like 80 percent of the women go for
the
top 20
percent of the men, leaving 80 percent of men to settle, lower their
standards, or remain single. Clearly women have the upperhand, and they
have
all the power and choices, for the
- Single men outnumber single women in America, as evidenced in these stats. There are too many men competing for too few women, giving women too many choices and men too few. Anyone can see this both in real life and in online personal ads, where women receive hundreds of times more responses than men do. And of course, they are far pickier.
- Decent looking and above women who are not overweight in
- Most American women are either overweight or look/act too
manly, thus making
them physically unattractive to a man’s basic nature and
taste. If she is thin
or at least decent looking though, then she is almost never single
(unless she
wants to be or no one fits her standards), or she has loads of guys
hitting on
her to choose from, so that courting her feels like trying to win the
lottery.
- Most average men in the
With all that going against men in America’s dating scene,
it’s no wonder that
so many male expats overseas unanimously agree that foreign women are
far
better and that they’d never go back to trying to get
American women again.
With many of the above factors reversed, male expats find foreign women
so
refreshing beyond words, so that they ask themselves “Where
have I been? Why
didn’t I come here sooner?”
This is the one thing male expats who are dating or married to foreign
women
all agree about. Expats commonly talk about this in private
conversations, but
for some reason, it’s rarely ever mentioned in public media
outlets, even on
the internet, and even on expat websites, except for sites like
HappierAbroad.com.
If you wish to contest any of this, then ask yourself this: Why there
is such a
large pickup artist community in
Inclusive social scene /
Connectedness – The
social atmosphere and vibe
in
There is
no sense of human
connectedness at all in
Mental health / Psychological
well being –
It’s no secret that the
http://msnbc.msn.com/id/5111202/
In some studies, the number of mentally ill in
http://nysun.com/editorials/are-we-really-ill?fark
https://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3823
And studies show that Americans have fewer close friends now than ever
before,
as loneliness has become a national epidemic in the
http://www.livescience.com/humanbiology/060331_loneliness.html
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/06/22/AR2006062201763_pf.html
Obviously America is a lonely fragmented country that is hard to make
friends
in, nevermind getting dates as well. Thus
it’s no wonder why so many Americans have to go to therapists
and psychologists
to talk about their problems (whereas in other countries, almost no one
needs
them), since they don’t have real friends who care about them
enough to listen
to them.
One can only speculate as to the reasons why there is so much mental
illness in
America, but there’s no doubt that the above mentioned
disadvantages contribute
to it. Americans are psychologically fragmented and disconnected. Due
to this as well as other factors, being
in
So it’s no surprise why many visitors to the US remark that
Americans as a
whole do not look happy at all, despite being the richest nation on
Earth, but
instead look very grumpy, irritable and fat.
As spiritual leader Jiddu
Krisnamurti said, “It is no measure of health
to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society”
In most other countries, you feel more relaxed, less stress, and more
“at one”
and connected with everything. There
is
a wholesomeness and integration on the inside that you don’t
have in
Many
expats, experienced
travelers and immigrants I’ve
known have concurred with this.
In
summary, whether the
strengths or weaknesses above
matter to you more depends largely on your needs, values, priorities,
personality and interests of course. But as for me, the three
disadvantages of
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